S/O a clicky poll

MadameD517

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xDanniellex

And by blue moon, I couldn't tell you the last time I gave one. 

BMWwife

I answered that I'm eh ok with them. They aren't my favorite thing but I dont detest giving them. I just feel like there isnt anything in it for me. Its a whole lot of work!! I know he LOVES them so I use them to my advantage. "If you do XYZ then you can have a blowie tonight", and yes I say it just like that.

MadameD517

BMWwife:

I answered that I'm eh ok with them. They aren't my favorite thing but I dont detest giving them. I just feel like there isnt anything in it for me. Its a whole lot of work!! I know he LOVES them so I use them to my advantage. "If you do XYZ then you can have a blowie tonight", and yes I say it just like that.

lol!

xDanniellex

This may be TMI,

but it isn't like I haven't done the sucking, I just haven't sucked him to completion in a long time.  That's a lot of freaking work!  

OK, I'll stop sharing so much now!

BMWwife

xDanniellex:

This may be TMI,

but it isn't like I haven't done the sucking, I just haven't sucked him to completion in a long time.  That's a lot of freaking work!  

OK, I'll stop sharing so much now!

See I dont count those as BJs (and neither does my husband) b/c they turn into sex. It is a lot of freaking work. Sometime I catch myself watching the clock and thinking "Good god are we there yet?!?". 

nola Steph

BMWwife:

xDanniellex:

This may be TMI,

but it isn't like I haven't done the sucking, I just haven't sucked him to completion in a long time.  That's a lot of freaking work!  

OK, I'll stop sharing so much now!

See I dont count those as BJs (and neither does my husband) b/c they turn into sex. It is a lot of freaking work. Sometime I catch myself watching the clock and thinking "Good god are we there yet?!?". 

 

Exactly.  Does it count when you take a break cause you're just like so damn bored with it and use your hand, then go back to the mouth at the end.  Regardless - it almost always ends in sex anyway.  Except for those times when I haven't been able to have sex (period week/postpartum/blah-di-blah-di-blah).

karebear304

ha! I just asked in the post below if it "counts" as  BJ if you don't finish.

I picked special snowflake b/c I don't mind visiting down there. I just HATE the end part. Like it literally makes me want to gag and puke. I know WHY people do it so I didn't pick that option, but it just makes me ill. I'd do it if it didn't gross me out so bad.

I've actually only "finished" anyone twice in my life (an ex). Once it was a shock so it wasn't that bad b/c it was quick. The next time I was prepared and I thought I was going to hurl. (For the record neither of these were my H. I used to tell him that one day I would do it, but I never did. I even found these cute little napkins that say "Today is the day" randomly and was going to leave one on his pillow when it was "the day", but I always got to chicken. I ended up just giving him the pack and telling him it was never going to be the day. hahahaha!

I honestly wish it didn't gross me out so bad b/c I feel like it's a little childish, but it's just one of those things. Like a fear I guess, but not scared - just grossed out. 

Wow, there's TMI all over the place in this post!

colenmike

If I do it more than 2 minutes I count that sucker.  Generally my H likes to end it with sex and he counts them so I'm happy about that.  I mean what if you did it for like 20 minutes and then ended in sex you don't get to count all that work?

I have TMJ so I am good for about 5 minutes before it becomes painful.  H always makes fun of me but I know he appreciates those 5 minutes before sex haha

BMWwife

karebear304:

Wow, there's TMI all over the place in this post!

LOL!

karebear304

colenmike:

If I do it more than 2 minutes I count that sucker. 

Pun intended? Bwahahahaha!

colenmike

haha really there wasn't a pun intended until after I sent it and I was like haha oops

x.starshine.x

A little late to the game =( sad. BUT I dont mind a little oral action before sex but strictly just a completed BJ?!  Only when Im feeling very frisky and getting some vibe action. I could count on one hand the number of times that has happened and OH why does he think when TOM is here, he is entitled? Because we cant have sex you get a BJ? NO.