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Interesting Questions

1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy?

2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose?

3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake?

4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life?

5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now?

6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness?

7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth?

8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases?

9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it?

10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why?

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TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
Nestie Besties with Nfp147 

Re: Interesting Questions

  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy?  No, I think if it keeps someone from getting their feelings hurt, small lies are ok.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose?  Roseanne; I can most relate to those characters and I think they?d be extremely fun.

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake?  No, an emotional loving bond is more important to me than a biological one is.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life?  It depends on what the crime was and why they did it.  If I agreed with what they did or think they had justification to do so, then yes, I?d lie to save them.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now?  Yes, sex really isn?t that important to me.

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness?  No, I think children who are exposed to reality at a younger age often deal with things better later in life.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth?  No, I think horrible nightmares for a year would drive me crazy, like in a padded room crazy.  So I?d have no use for money then.

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases?  No, I am a very strong believer that everything happens for a reason; I wouldn?t want to mess with fate like that.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it?  Nope

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why?  21?I was still living at home, only had to work part time, and literally was having the time of my life out at bars and clubs all week long.  There?s no way I could do it now, but it?d be fun to relive it for a week.

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? I don't think that anyone can say that they are 100% honest all the time, so I don't think that a little lie is going to hurt if the situation for it arises. 2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Brother's and Sister's, I would love to be a part of a big family like that and have a mom as crazy as theirs.3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? No, after a year the loving bond that you would have with that child would be so strong I think it would be near impossible to give them away and start from scratch with the correct child. I would probably always play the what-if game in my head though.4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? It would definitely depend on the crime and if they actually committed it or not. I think that for fear that I would end up in just as much trouble I would have a hard time committing perjury for anyone. 5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? I have a good sense of peace as it is and giving up sex wouldn't be worth it to me. 6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? No, I think that children should have a decent dose of reality and not be sheltered or they will have a much harder time when they are out on their own for the first time. 7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? Heck no!! I love to sleep and that would definitely interfere with my sleep. I don't think that wealth can buy happiness so I will stick with my current financial situation. 8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? No, I also believe that everything happens for a reason, and with my luck I would do it and then something new would come out and I would be the first to get it. Then I would be missing a finger and diseased. 9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Yep, I had a pair of dress pants that I bought and they stretched out so bad the day that I wore them that I took them back for a new size, I told them that they had been worn. 10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? 21-I didn't have much fun when I turned 21, my boyfriend was a lot older so he wasn't in to the party scene, I missed out on a lot of fun in my early 20's. 
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  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? I think little fibs are okay to save someone's feelings.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Currently, my favourite is Big Bang Theory, although it might also be yummy to be trapped in the Top Chef kitchen.

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? Good question.  Hard to say without being in the situation.  I doubt I would be able to give up a one-year-old child.  The whole situation would be heartbreaking.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? It really depends on what they did, and whether or not they actually did it.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? I could, though I think I'm fairly "at peace".

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? No. I think we are doing children a disservice by not letting them win or lose or fail at anything.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? Tough one, I'm not sure my sanity would be worth it.

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? In a second.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Yes, roller blades.  I decided I was going to kill myself if I continued to use them.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? Could I go back with the knowledge I have now?  If so, probably late teens.  If not, I've been fairly satisfied with my 30s.

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    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? I can't say that I'm honest 100% of the time...little fibs are better than bursting someones bubble sometimes.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Modern Family...that show cracks me up.

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? I honestly don't know what I would do in such a situation. I would want to get to know the child I gave birth to, but couldn't imagine giving up a child I had for a year.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? That's a tough one. I'm not good under pressure and having to lie so I think all I would do is get both of us in trouble if I attempted to "help".

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? I think I could give up sex for a year if it made me more at peace with life.

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? No...if they don't  learn now when will they learn? Some parents think their 30 yr old children are still their babies so would they shelter them then too?

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? I'm usually good about realizing a dream is just a dream so I might consider it.

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? hmm...just "major" diseases no. all diseases yes.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Can't say that I have. I hate returning things.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? I'm another one who would go back to 21. Not saying I don't have a good life now, but life was pretty good then. Was living on my own, had a boyfriend that I thought loved me at the time lol, had a great job. Just a week would be hard though. At least I'd be coming back to my hubby after the week was over.

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  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy?
    To an extent. I always try to be honest, but not so much that it's just mean to be mean.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose?
    How I Met Your Mother...they are such a funny group of friends, and it seems like it would be a lot of fun to be around them.

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake?
    Probably not...I can't say for sure unless I was in that situation, but I can't imagine I would want to. Although, if the other parent did, legally I think I would have to.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life?
    If I knew for a fact they were innocent, then maybe. But if I thought/knew they were guilty, no...if a close friend put themselves in a situation where they are risking being put to death, I obviously didn't know them very well in the first place.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now?
    Errrmm....probably not lol.

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness?
    No, but they shouldn't be alone in their unhappiness. The parent needs to talk to the child about whatever is causing it, though.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth?
    If it meant I wouldn't have to worry about money for the rest of my life, yes. I'm used to horrible nightmares lol

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases?
    Probably not...

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it?
    I've never bought anything with the sole purpose of using and returning, so if I have used it and returned it, it meant something was wrong with it.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why?
    For the most part, I had fun at age 7ish. I would love to go back and play with all the new toys that are out now (I'm a kid at heart :)  )

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  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? I think if it is a little white lie to save someones feelings its okay.
    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? I would have to say diners drive-in and dives love that show!! love anything food network!
    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? Mixed feelings, I think you would know before a year that the child wasn't yours...but if it took a year then no, I would not be able to on the emotional bond I have with the child already. it would be a very bothersome tho, that a Hospital has made that BIG of a mistake.
    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? I'm a firm believer in the death penalty/ doing time for a crime you committed, I'm not going to get up there and Lie. 
    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? No way. 6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? No, it's a part of life/ growing up. children need to be sheltered from things but to a certain point and preventing any unhappiness will only cause problems later.
    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? I do not think it would bother me that much. I have them enough already might as well get something out it!
    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? NO
    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Does it count if I opened it and it did not work, so I took it back?
    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? 15, just before my mom got really sick, I would spend All the spare time I had with her, instead of going to friends houses, and trying to avoid the problem and tell her how much I loved her ever chance I got that week. 
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  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? No

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? I Love Lucy

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? I would.  I'd want to raise my child even if I missed a year - but I'd hope the exchanged parents allow us to stay in touch.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? Depends.  If she killed someone, I can't lie.  If she stole some sh!t and beat someones asss, I'm down to save her.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? I do not see how this could happen, no sex =/= more peace!

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? Until they are old enough to have the learned ability to cope with it on their own.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? No.  I hate nightmares because they don't leave my mind once I wake up so it'd be a full year of he!l.

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? Yes.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Can't say I haven't wanted to many times - but no.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? 23.  I thought I was invincible and beautiful at the same time.  I was completely in love and didn't really know of loss yet.  I was done my education and working full time so I had my own money and car to do my own thing.  I had a ton of friends surrounding me.  I knew for sure what my future held at that time.. at least I had myself convinced that I did anyway.

  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? Not if it means hurting someone's feelings, especially over something trivial.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Mash. I love that show.

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? Toughie. You've had the kid for a year, so you're obviously attached emotionally. I probably would, but it'd have to be something deeply discussed with my husband and the other set of parents.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? No. Sorry, but if she had a good attorney and the evidence was presented properly, then they wouldn't need me to perjure myself.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? I wasn't aware I could have a deeper sense of peace than I have now. And sex is part of what makes life peaceful for me, so no.

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? No, I feel the reason for the unhappiness should be explained (death, etc). Unless, of course, the reason for the unhappiness is that they're being abused. Then I believe they should be removed and the abuser should be hung upside down by their toenails.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? I already have horrible nightmares most nights. Where's my money?

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? As long as it's not my pointer fingers, thumbs, or the one holding my wedding set in place.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Nope.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? I really like 25 so far, and going back would mean I'd have to relive some crap, so no, I'm good.

  • 1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? No, I think stretching the truth is sometimes necessary for everyone's sanity.

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Friends!

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? Wow thats a tough one. I think it would be important to at least open the communication between the two sets of parents and the two kids.

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? No. and no.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? yes

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? not sheltered but slowly immersed in it as they get older.

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? no, I hate nightmares!

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? as long as it wasn't a thumb!

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? nope. the most I've done is returned a pair of shoes to zappos after trying them on with my wedding dress and not liking them. but i didn't even wear them outside.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? 21. Ah, to be naive and in college again - just for a little bit - would be a nice break.

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    1) Do you believe honesty is always the best policy? For the most part, but sometimes a little white lie is ok

    2) If you had to be trapped in a TV show for a month, which show would you choose? Hmmm.... I have no idea....

    3) You discover that your one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours.  Would you want to exchange the child to correct the mistake? Nah, I would be way too attached after 1 year!

    4) Would you be willing to commit perjury in court for a close friend?  What if your lie would save his/her life? Depends on the situation and the friend... But probably not.

    5) Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now? Yeah, I could go a year with out getting any, but it wouldn't be fun Devil

    6) Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness? Not at all. If they do not learn how to deal with disappointment at a young age, they will probably be spoiled asss adults

    7)  Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares every night for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth? No, I hate nightmares

    8) Would you have one of your fingers surgically removed if it guaranteed immunity from all major diseases? That is a tough one... but probably so.

    9) Have you ever returned an item to a store for a refund after having used it?  If so, what was it? Not that I can think of... the only used items I have returned were defective.

    10) If you could be any age again for a week, what age would you be and why? 5. I miss nap time Sleep

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