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Cant get there update.
I had posted previously about not being able to have an orgasm with my H. Well I worked on it like advises and it worked! A fellow poster advised to focus on me and concentrate and not be self consious and it worked:) I had one everyday of our honeymoon. My question now is that sometimes its easy and sometimes we really have to work at it to get there. Maybe TMI but my H stimulates my G spot while I stimulate my clitoras(sp) and that seems to be the only way I am able to climax although we have tried different positions. It seems like it is getting harder and harder over time to acheive. I didnt know if anyone else has experienced the variation from week to week or if I am already getting use to this kind of stimulation?
Re: Cant get there update.
First off: Yeah for you!!
I have found that my body is different week to week depending on where in my cycle I am.
I agree w/PP. But it sounds like you are still thinking too much during sex. Keep trying that is the most fun apart. And you don't have to reach an O everytime. Sex can be enjoyable without it too. I don't O everytime DH and I have sex. Sometimes my body reacts to whats going on better than others.
GL with you continue search for the big O!
Also, don't forget that for a female, the orgasm is not the be-all-end-all of sex. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't, it doesn't mean you or your H are bad or lame. Some days your brain may just not be there for it. Sometimes your hormones will be one a crazy surge and it will be easy as pie. It's just part of being female (ugh).
Try bringing in some toys if you feel like you need some extra stimulation. Or get him to bring you most of the way there with oral first, and then finish with penetration.