Without going into a ton of detail, I'm just kind of pissed at him right now. I don't know if it is hormones or what, but I am upset.
3 nights this week he has been out doing crap until like 11/12/1 AM. I know I know, get it done now bc in a few months it's not going to fly. That's not the issue.
The issue is we'll IM during the day and I'll say something like (for instance) I'm tired. He'll then say "Oh I'm so tired too" Well you got home at 12 and woke up early, no sh!t. Then he'll go on about that, but not ask how I am doing, etc.
Or I will say something something like "I just cannot snap out of my meh mood"
His response was "I feel stoned. I shouldn't have had the mucinex extra strength" And then continues on to tell me how is he feeling, why he is feeling that way, but that he'll be OK, bla bla bla. NO comment made on why I am feeling meh. No how is your day, etc.
I'm going to fvcking snap at him.
I did just tell him it is upsetting me. He apologized. We'll see if it improves.
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Jackie, sometimes I wonder if we married the same guy. DH was out until after midnight last night, at his parents' house. This is very common for him. He will stay out super late on a weeknight, and then be super tired the next night, and it just continues on until the weekend, when all he wants to do is sleep. Pisses me off to now end. He thinks that being out late when I'm at work/sleeping/whatever doesn't affect me at all, no matter how many times I tell him that it wrecks time that we do have together later. We've had this conversation many many times, and it pretty much never changes.
On one hand, I feel like I have no right to give him a curfew. But on the other hand, it's not fair to me for him to be dead when we do have time to spend together.
This is so true.
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I predict you may have the same middle of the night feeding issues that I'm having. DH will wake me up to say "HEY-you missed the 1am, 4am, feeding" and I always snap back that I didn't and his lazy butt slept through DS waking up.
Thank god R doesn't depend on him for all of his feedings. He would be starving.
This is my E right now. It drives me nuts!
J- It's good that you shared your frustration with him. If he doesn't improve I think you have every right to snap. They just don't get it sometimes!
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This! And they definitely don't get it sometimes!!!!! Probably more than sometimes!