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Lets lighten things up....

In honor of the newer members (the real newlyweds, if you will):

 When did you know DH was "the one" (and Cayla - I know you're not married but you said things are better than ever with Scott, so lets hear it!)?  Did he do something special? Were you somewhere special? Spill it!

Re: Lets lighten things up....

  • My DH and I met in high school. We weren't anywhere in particular and absolutely nothing out of the ordinary happened, but one day I just knew that I wanted to date him. He was friendly, cute, funny, and had (has) the most amazing eyes. As soon as I got to know him as a friend I knew if I dated him we'd end up getting married. It was pretty much a case of love at first sight (and yes, at such a young age!).
  • Don't we all love love stories :)

    I knew DD had marriage potential when he threw a snowball at a mailbox maybe 75 feet (I really have no idea, but it's a long driveway, so 75 sounds possible) away and hit it right on.  It's a good skill to be able to teach future children. Yep, it sounds crazy :)  The time that I knew he WAS the one- he "borrowed" a wheelchair from the ER when my stepdad was being flown to a Boston hospital and my mom would need a wheelchair to get around.  Then he drove my mom and I into Boston faster than possible, got us all set up in a hotel, and came back each day for the next 3. 

  • Hmm. There wasn't really any one defining moment for that particular revelation. I knew by three months into the relationship, definitely (he knew even earlier), but it was a gradual thing over time.  We were both at such a difficult crossroads in our lives as individuals that it took us a bit to see it for what it was, and even after that, process it- it was shocking to us, having known each other for 4 years as friends first.
  • Two Times:

    My sister was in a car accident a couple months after we had started dating and the first time we saw her afterwards - he knew I was nervous about it.  He gave her a big hug and told her he was so worried about her and was so glad to see her doing alright.  It was so sincere and I knew he really meant it.  He was always really great and fit into my crazy family so well 

    Then a few months later

    Hubs had always talked about moving back to MD or away from Boston.  I always told him, 100 miles from Fenway was as far as I would go, he would make a big deal of it and make fun of me for it, but hey when there's a place that you love that you connect to your friends and family - it's hard to imagine being far from it.  We were on Yawkey Way enjoying a beer and listening the the music and the people and he was holding my hand and said "I think anywhere within 100 miles from here is a good place to be with you"

    So I knew that we'd always be together from that point on.

  • lol! Well.... a background Scott and I went on one date after he graduated, the end of my freshman year, and he begged and begged to take me out- and I finally gave in. After that date I thought he was the biggest dork, and actually laughed when my mom asked me if I would ever see him again. Three years later I was moving to Fl and we started talking again! And I always say... well and now we're here!

    He would kill me for saying this! The moment for me was when I was visiting from FL, and Scott brought me back to the airport and he cried the whole ride. Also the way Scott fell in love with my mom and brothers. He calls her all on his own and checks in on her. He's fabulous:-) We have been through a lot, but we have grown and our relationship has evolved into something I never knew could happen!

  • I knew on our first date. He was busy telling me a story about when he was a kid in Illinois and he had a hold of two dogs while on a sled and the dogs pretty much wrapped him around a tree - I was in stitches from the story and was laughing so hard at him telling it, while we had lunch together - and I remembered looking at him and just knowing...
  • i met my husband at a party- his best friend asked me out & i said no because i was more interested in (my husband)

    i knew after the first date- i came home & told my friends i was going to marry him. and i did. :)

  • I wouldn't have admitted it then but shortly after we met we went on a 5 week mission trip to Kenya.  When we got there we had an 8 hour bus ride from the airport.  We ended up sitting next to each other and talked the entire time! We got to know each other so well and realized we had so much in common. He was so sweet and somewhere inside I just knew. :)

  • Bill and I were friends for about 4 months when my birthday came around.  I told everyone I knew I was going out to this bar, including his friend Derek who I was a better friend with at the time.  Bill stood outside in line for 30min (in January!!!) and Derek didn't!  I knew then that maybe Bill liked me.  We were "just friends" who cuddled and hugged and talked on the phone for hours for another 3 months before we both admitted maybe it was something more.  7.5 years later we are still best friends!

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  • DH and I met about a year after I had gone through a terrible break-up.  I was just starting back into the dating scene when I was out at the bar one night and happened to spot him on the dance floor.  Anyways we started seeing each other shortly after that night, but then I tried to push him away.  I wasn't ready to get my heart broken again.  And also I was trying to finish up on my Master's so I need my space.  Well DH understood that, but the night I tried to "break things off" he was so upset, it seemed I was the one breaking a heart now.  The heartfelt words he said to me made me really take a look at my life...we took things slow for a while....they it just happened and I was able to picture him in my life....for the long haul.
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  • When I first met DH I was 15, and I am not kidding when I tell you he had this glow around him.  I seriously was in love at first sight... but of course for a 15 year old that love is a little bit different than the love I we share now!

    Fast forward 4 years later when we went on our first trip alone together to Niagra Falls.  After that trip I knew he was the one for me! We had such a great time and continued to grow closer as time went on and well... here we are having the time of our lives!

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