Number 3... or 2?

JoShan1719

Well, I guess it's time I said something, too. DH and I have been separated since the beginning of February. Things have been unstable for a while, so we've decided to take a break and get some space between us for a while. We're going to decide in August what further steps to take.

TIA for any support you ladies can offer, I could really use some :-(

cortneyloo

I'm so sorry to hear that JoShan We'll of course be here for you in any way we can be. I know what it's like to be living separate and feeling like the relationship you once had is a distant memory and feeling helpless because you don't think you can fix things. It sucks and I hate that you're in that place now. Just know that if you two want it to work out, it can and will. Have you considered counseling? Sometimes it really helps to have a mediator there who can offer a different viewpoint and ensure your arguments are productive so you can work through whatever is going on. I hope things look up for you soon!

starsailorr26

I'm sorry you're going through this. I also think that you should discuss counseling if you feel that you want to take steps to try to work things out. We're here if you ever need to vent or talk about things.

snoopy3319

I'm so sorry. Hopefully you guys can get a good line of communication started after your separation to try and figure things out. Counseling is always beneficial, and at least you could say you tried the possibility. We're always here if you need us.

futuremrsofficer

I know things must seem really crappy, and that you must feel alone, but know you are not the only one of us to go through this. Marriage is hard. Counseling has saved my marriage. Please don't be afraid to talk to us, we're here for you.

stephkay

So sorry you're going through this.  Know that we're all here for you. 

kaesha

=( I'm sorry JoShan. Seriously, we are all here for you for whatever you want to talk about. Lots of vibes and love coming at you!

blenderdance

Sorry hun!  Sending lots of hugs your way...and let us know what we can do to help you through all this...

rxbeth

I'm sorry.  Remember we're all here for you if you need to talk.  I also second the idea of counseling if you guys haven't looked in to it yet.  ~hugs~

auntb86

Vibes headed your way that things will work out for the best! I am so sorry you are going through this!

thecarrotflower

I am so sorry you are going through this. I too second the counselling, it has been SO beneficial to my marriage. Remember we are all here for you whenever you need to talk or vent. You aren't the only one going through this, you are not alone.

LesPaul

I'm so sorry, JoShan.  "The first year is the hardest" is a tremendous understatement, and just the beginning.  Every year is hard.

{{hugs}} to you - we're here for anything you need.

rebaann

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  Please feel free to talk things out here if you'd like and we are here no matter what you decide to do.  {{hugs}}

SusiOT

I'm so sorry, JoShan. We've got support for you in spades here. I ditto everyone who's said that counseling would be a helpful step, too. Just know that we're here for you.

chicha0719

I am so sorry.

Feel free to PM me anytime. I understand what you are going through.

rayne779

So sorry you are going through this.

girl-23

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this.

crystaljkbj

I am so sorry. If you need anyone to talk to we are here and if you need to PM me at anytime please feel free. I know its hard and very emotional.

abarber340

I am so sorry, JoShan. I will be sending vibes your way. Let us know if there is anything that we can do and we're always here to listen.

eeeeva

I'm sorry to hear it JoShan. I hope you guys decide what is best for you both and we are all here if you want to talk.