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The Sad News - Re: Ryley

Tim and Shannon made the heart breaking decision to stop treatments for Ryley.  The poor little boy is just done.  Apparently he would just break into tears any time a doctor or nurse came in the room.

They discussed all the options with their doctors, but his little body was just not responding.

So, now he's at home.  The family will be together and he will get to be a 2 year old for the time that he has left, but poor little Ryley will become an angel.  We're not sure what the timeline is, but we're going out to visit with them next weekend. 

Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers you've sent his way so far, your love and support for someone you've never met is astounding.   

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  • I am so sorry Raynes. That is heartbreaking news. Every since you brought Ryley to the board I've been praying for that poor little boy. I will still be praying for a miracle for them all. T&P to Tim and Shannon, they sound like amazing people. That had to be the hardest decision to make as a parent.
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  • This is absolutely heartbreaking and I cannot imagine having to make that decision.  I will be thinking of them and praying for a miracle.  I wish them peace during this time.  I am so sorry.
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  • Oh God.  This actually made me sick to my stomach to read.  Words cannot even express how awful I feel for Tim and Shannon and Ryley and the girls.  And you and Derek too.  I'm so sorry and will be sending lots of thoughts and prayers.
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  • Oh raynes, I'm so sorry. :( This made me tear up. I can't imagine what they are feeling right now. I'll be keeping all of them in my thoughts. :(

    Is there anything we (or I, I suppose I should say) can do to make the rest of his time as enjoyable as possible?

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  • I will keep them in my thoughts.  What a hard decision to make as parents.

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  • im in tears over here. I'm so so sorry. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.
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  • Oh no! I can't imagine what Tim and Shannon are going through. My heart breaks for their family and I can't help but shed a few tears. I'll keep Ryley and his family and friends in my prayers.
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  • I'm so sorry Raynes, I'm sorry that everyone is going through this. Is there anything we can do to make however long he has left as filled with laughter as possible?
  • Oh no, I'm so sad to read this. :( 
  • I'm so sorry Raynes. My heart breaks for them.
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  • I'm not sure what, if anything, we could do, but, I'll be sure to let you all know if there is.  For now, just hug someone you love.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this sad sad news, my heart breaks for Tim and Shanon. I will be keeping Ryley and his family in my prayers. I just can't imagine what they are going through. 
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  • My heart sank when I saw the title of this post.  I can't imagine what they are all going through.  I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

    Please let us know if, once things settle down, if you can think of any way that any of us can pitch in and do anything to help them out.

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  • oh my god. I am so, so, sad to hear this. I cannot imagine having to make such a decision and my heart goes out to Tim & Shannon and the other kiddos. I'll be keeping them in my thoughts. if there's anything we can do, please let us know!
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  • This breaks my heart. I can not imagine what the family is going through. T & P's go out to the family.
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  • Do Ryley's parents/family have a blog?
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  • Oh my god! I'm so so sorry Raynes my heart breaks for them. That poor liitle guy is a true fighter. I will keep him and his family in my prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this, but glad that whatever time he has left will be free of doctors and hospitals.  I'll be keeping the family in my prayers.
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  • I'm so, so sorry for this terrible news. Many hugs to you all.
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  • I am so, so sorry to hear this. I do not know much about this story, but I cannot imagine making a decision like that. I will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • How incredibly heartbreaking.  I'm thinking of your friends and you guys, too.
  • Oh, raynes, this has me in tears.  Poor Ryley.  I can only imagine how hard this decision is for Tim & Shannon.  They will continue to be in my T&P.

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    Do Ryley's parents/family have a blog?

    They've got a CarePages site, but it's invitation only.

     

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  • Oh my goodness. This is absolutely heartbreaking. My thoughts are with you guys and Tim and Shannon and Ryley's siblings. I just can't imagine. I am glad though that Ryley will be able to enjoy the time he has left.
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  • Oh Raynes. Im so sorry to hear this. Im tearing up. My heart goes out to him, his family and you. Big hugs.
  • I'm so sorry. I can't imagine having to make that decision, but at least Ryley will be able to be home with his family when the time comes. My thoughts go out to you and Tim & Shannon and their family. Please let us know if there's anything they need or want.
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  • I'm so sorry, raynes. I will continue to send T&Ps to you and Tim and Shannon. ((hugs))
  • Raynes, I'm so sorry to hear this. It's absolutely heartbreaking. My thoughts continue to be with everyone, and I'm sending all the strength I can during this time.
  • Raynes what terrible news. I am so sorry about Ryley.
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  • What an awful disease.  Definite T&Ps/Vibes for Tim and Shannon as well as you guys.  Much love!
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