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ReadytobeMrs.B

i don't want to post my weekend plans until trish explains all of the craziness that's been going on lately....the breakups, the coming backs, the dd's.....

askmetostay

even with all the passive-aggressive craziness from my friend and her DH...i STILL hope my other friends decide not to invite them to hang out this weekend. because it feels like a cop-out.

MeredithE

ReadytobeMrs.B:

i don't want to post my weekend plans until trish explains all of the craziness that's been going on lately....the breakups, the coming backs, the dd's.....

Thank you for articulating the Elephant in the room:

 

askmetostay

MeredithE:

ReadytobeMrs.B:

i don't want to post my weekend plans until trish explains all of the craziness that's been going on lately....the breakups, the coming backs, the dd's.....

Thank you for articulating the Elephant in the room:

 

WHO ARE THESE MEN, AND WHY DID THEY STEAL MY DANCE MOVES?!?!

champagnedreams

MeredithE:

ReadytobeMrs.B:

i don't want to post my weekend plans until trish explains all of the craziness that's been going on lately....the breakups, the coming backs, the dd's.....

Thank you for articulating the Elephant in the room:

 

this reminds me of myself while I clean up around the house. i like to have fun with it.

askmetostay

ReadytobeMrs.B:

i don't want to post my weekend plans until trish explains all of the craziness that's been going on lately....the breakups, the coming backs, the dd's.....

i love that she'll answer a strnager's question about lipo...but not this.

WifeDeAngel

I might be the only one, but Trish's recent behavior doesnt bother me. I know DDing is a cardinal sin on the nest, but it's just not a big deal to me. If she does indeed need help, being called out on the interwebs is probably not the most effective way to get her the help she needs.

PuppiesAndRainbows

I don't think she's mentally stable. Her H obviously does not love her, or even like her, that's clear to even an outsider. His relationship with the horse trainer was inappropriate to say the least, he told her he can't be burdened with her or her problems, he's made it clear she is not his priority, etc.

My biggest WTF moment was when she emailed all of us saying she's getting divorced and needs a place to stay. Not one week later I caught her post on the ATL bump board saying "we just had our 5th anniversary and it keeps getting better and better! Marriage 4 evah!" Say whut? The constant DD'ing is just ridiculous too, she knows it's not going to turn out well but she keeps doing it. It's bizarre.

PuppiesAndRainbows

WifeDeAngel:

I might be the only one, but Trish's recent behavior doesnt bother me. I know DDing is a cardinal sin on the nest, but it's just not a big deal to me. If she does indeed need help, being called out on the interwebs is probably not the most effective way to get her the help she needs.

I understand what you're saying, but it's not our job to get her help. I privately gave her some information on a counselor and encouraged her to go and get some therapy. I don't know if she did or not. Her erratic behavior, calling us all "backstabbers", her bizarre rant about the GTG that no one blamed her for pretty much ended her friendship with most of us. She clearly needs help, but it's up to her to go get it.

UGADawg8

PuppiesAndRainbows:

I don't think she's mentally stable. Her H obviously does not love her, or even like her, that's clear to even an outsider. His relationship with the horse trainer was inappropriate to say the least, he told her he can't be burdened with her or her problems, he's made it clear she is not his priority, etc.

My biggest WTF moment was when she emailed all of us saying she's getting divorced and needs a place to stay. Not one week later I caught her post on the ATL bump board saying "we just had our 5th anniversary and it keeps getting better and better! Marriage 4 evah!" Say whut? The constant DD'ing is just ridiculous too, she knows it's not going to turn out well but she keeps doing it. It's bizarre.

I must have missed a lot when I took my little nest break a while back.  I've never heard any of this before.

Aerorea

WifeDeAngel:

I might be the only one, but Trish's recent behavior doesnt bother me. I know DDing is a cardinal sin on the nest, but it's just not a big deal to me. If she does indeed need help, being called out on the interwebs is probably not the most effective way to get her the help she needs.

This. I posted on the other thread before reading this one and didn't realize I was the only response.

ohmygoodness99

PuppiesAndRainbows:

 Her H obviously does not love her, or even like her, that's clear to even an outsider.

ouch... way to make me feel bad for her... no wonder she spends all her time with her bike

 

WifeDeAngel

All of that about her H might be true, and like all things on the Internet, we don't know the whole story. As for her behavior here, it takes more than one misunderstanding to make me dump friends. The odd posts and DD's are just side show.

ReadytobeMrs.B

WifeDeAngel:

All of that about her H might be true, and like all things on the Internet, we don't know the whole story. As for her behavior here, it takes more than one misunderstanding to make me dump friends. The odd posts and DD's are just side show.

i totally understand where you are coming from, but i have been included on emails off the web and it just makes me sad - the way she acts. for me, it's more like a lack of respect for those of us she has contacted off of the board. the highs and lows are just a little ridiculous...when we try to offer help - based on emails from her - it goes totally ignored and there is a totally opposite "situation" the very next day.

GardenPeach

I don't really care either way. Although I did find it interesting that she didn't even recognize me at the last gtg, which i found a bit bizarre considering how long I've posted here and been privy to all the details of her private life, let alone the fact that we're FB friends. I even instigated the initial meeting of the two worlds with the great nest migration a few years ago! Ahhh, the good ol' days...

Honestly, the board has lost a lot of its fun, partially because of some of these types of blah blah blah downers. Lately the board has me - well - bored ...

PuppiesAndRainbows

For those who think we're just being mean, there's a lot of behind the scenes back story you're not aware of.

UGADawg8

GardenPeach:

I don't really care either way. Although I did find it interesting that she didn't even recognize me at the last gtg, which i found a bit bizarre considering how long I've posted here and been privy to all the details of her private life, let alone the fact that we're FB friends. I even instigated the initial meeting of the two worlds with the great nest migration a few years ago! Ahhh, the good ol' days...

Honestly, the board has lost a lot of its fun, partially because of some of these types of blah blah blah downers. Lately the board has me - well - bored ...

I totally feel like I'm the worst debbie downer on the board right now and I'm sorry for that.  It's just a good place for me to vent my worries/concerns/frustrations right now. 

PuppiesAndRainbows

UGADawg8:

GardenPeach:

I don't really care either way. Although I did find it interesting that she didn't even recognize me at the last gtg, which i found a bit bizarre considering how long I've posted here and been privy to all the details of her private life, let alone the fact that we're FB friends. I even instigated the initial meeting of the two worlds with the great nest migration a few years ago! Ahhh, the good ol' days...

Honestly, the board has lost a lot of its fun, partially because of some of these types of blah blah blah downers. Lately the board has me - well - bored ...

I totally feel like I'm the worst debbie downer on the board right now and I'm sorry for that.  It's just a good place for me to vent my worries/concerns/frustrations right now. 

Allison, I really don't think Lauren was referring to you. I think I can speak for everyone when I say you are welcome to vent away. We are totally here for you.

GardenPeach

UGADawg8:

GardenPeach:

I don't really care either way. Although I did find it interesting that she didn't even recognize me at the last gtg, which i found a bit bizarre considering how long I've posted here and been privy to all the details of her private life, let alone the fact that we're FB friends. I even instigated the initial meeting of the two worlds with the great nest migration a few years ago! Ahhh, the good ol' days...

Honestly, the board has lost a lot of its fun, partially because of some of these types of blah blah blah downers. Lately the board has me - well - bored ...

I totally feel like I'm the worst debbie downer on the board right now and I'm sorry for that.  It's just a good place for me to vent my worries/concerns/frustrations right now. 

FTR, I was not thinking of you at all when I wrote that.  

ETA: P&R beat me to it! What she said exactly!

WifeDeAngel

FTR, I also got most of, if not all those private emails. I didn't actually see the Backstabbing thing, but heard about It the next day. Idk, maybe all those years doing slam poetry gave me a high crazy tolerance. :>P

smynings_bride

I haven't seen the private emails but don't understand why someone else's dirty laundry about their marriage needs to be aired out here as I assume the private emails were intended to be kept private. 

PuppiesAndRainbows

smynings_bride:

I haven't seen the private emails but don't understand why someone else's dirty laundry about their marriage needs to be aired out here as I assume the private emails were intended to be kept private. 

About 90% of this was on the board, she aired it herself.