I was thinking about how you were trying to think of a way to talk to your H about charting without freaking him out since you said he's a little weirded out by body stuff. What if you told him that you have discontinued taking hormonal birth control because of the side effects, and that you are now charting your fertility signs (if he asks for more details you can offer)? Then tell him that basically, charting your fertility signs will allow you to know when you are, and are not fertile which allows you to avoid pregnancy. If it makes him nervous tell him he can wear a condom lol.
FWIW - I was nervous that H wouldn't like the idea since he hasnt had to use a condom or abstain from sex since very early in our relationship. When I brought it up and told him what I was thinking, he was very willing to make some adjustments so I could regain my sex drive. And now, he gets VERY excited when he doesnt have to wear one lol.
Re: **AngieandJames**