confessions (FF - promise!)

sarges05girl

melpfaff:

telatovich:

I confess:  I'm terrible jealous of everyone's baby talk and have wanted to post "shut up about your babies and your breastfeeding!!!!" posts, but realize it's pure jealousy and ridiculous.  Sorry for those even that thought offends.

Also - i confess I like the term "KU." 

I confess:  I think about trying to nest at work, but know I'd get caught instantly.  I miss having the nest to kill time with.

I confess:  I went though a time of trying to completely distance myself from here and unfriended everyone on facebook because I have never felt like I fit in around here and thought it was time to move on.  I genuinally like this board though... and i really can't spell. 

 

Tela - I miss you from the board! I love your dog pics - we want to get a boxer some day.  I know how you feel about not fitting in on the board sometimes.  I feel that there are some distinct groups of cliques on the board that don't involve me.  I also can't nest at work so by the time I get home most of the posts are dead.

Both of the bolded for me too. I don't really play into the clique thing (I've had my fair share in HS, so I just post what I want when I want on the controversial stuff). But there are times when I feel like I'm "missing" something. And it really bums me out that I can't nest at work; I feel like I miss everything and by the time I get the opportunity to contribute it's either been said or gotten over.

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steeser03:

i have only had like 4 periods in my life and i havent had AF in over 7 years. i've never had cramps.

I confess that I'm not jealous of this. It scares me that I don't get mine unless I screw up my BC. With all my OB/GYN problems I'm petrified that we won't be able to have kids. Also, I am afraid of the complications of my medication and what we will have to do in order to have a healthy baby. 

SaveTheWorld2014

JillianAshley6:

JamieWillard:

H is so mad at me. he's asked for a bj 3 times in the last 2 weeks and i've refused. Its not that i don't want to make him happy but it really really sucks not getting anything in return and since i gave birth i've been having a problem with my hands they go to sleep when i am using them example my right hand is almost completely asleep as i type this. My feet are also doing it. I just don't feel up to doing it right now and he doesn't care to understand my side.

Im going back to work on tuesday, and we are having my FIL watch drake, this was not my first choice but with our schuedules and the fact that it's free i went with it. Yesterday H's mom said " i can't wait till you go back to work so i can take drake and show him off to all my firends...im taking him all over town." So bascialy i feel like she's going to be off taking my baby where ever she feel like even though i told them he was not to be going all over town...( h's parents car's sucks and FIL doesn't have the best driving skills) His mom has told me before that "she's the grandma so she gets a say in what goes on" WTF!?

1. Fvck him. Seriously. Jamie, thats not okay. Next time he does this, lead his ass to the computer, google "p0rn" (don't want that word showing up on my work comp!), and tell him to take care of his own business. I completely understand "wifely duties" and all that crap, but its not your job to satisfy his every whim right now. You've got your hands full with a new baby, and health issues.

2. I would look into other childcare plans. She isn't even caring for Drake yet and she is saying this. Again, thats not okay-you're the parent and you get the final say when it comes to your child. Honestly, I would sit her down, explain your concerns, and tell her you get final say, and let her know that if she doesn't agree with what you have said,  you'll find other childcare. Its better to have to pay for childcare but know they'll respect your wishes than to have free childcare and have no control over what happens to your child between 8 and 5.

GL.....all of the above is hard

Jamie - agreed, not okay! I don't even buy into wifely duties but even so fluck him. He's got his hand, his imagination, the TV/computer. You don't want to do it, that's the end of it.

In my house, I do that if I want to. He does it if he wants to. If he actually asked, I'd kill him and if I asked him, I'd expect him to be weirded out.

GL! :-)