I have questions

tawillers

Rant/vent about money. (NBR, of course)

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I get a WHOPPING 23.09 a week in child support from ex. But, it's 23 extra bucks a week that is helpful either way. It's garnished from him. But his STUPID boss's wife can't seem to manage to stick it in an envelope and send it to Child Support services weekly. She'll do it when I call them to complain and they call her. Long enough to shut me up. Then it's every 2 or 3 weeks or when she feels like it (this lazy b!tch doesn't really do so much that she can't throw the check in the mail...seriously)

I could count on it every other Thurs. Then it was Friday..then Sat...now, here it is 2 weeks and 2 days since last one....no sign of it. Would've been nice since my son's filed trip payment was due today AND I need some gas money til Friday. CS services has a LONG list of compl

It also gets better. I pay child support religiously for my DD. Child support services screwed something up over a year ago and tried to say I owed 6,000$!!! FINALLY in Feb they conceded I owed NOTHING. Bringing my balance to zero. YET...they still took my state tax return in March. Now...here it is May. Still waiting for them to refund it back to me (get this: they can take it as soon as I file....because even if your balance goes to zero...they wont send a notice to IRS retracting their notice of lien. BUT....they are required to hold it 45 full days before they can give it back to me!!!!! When it was all THEIR mistake in the first place).

Um...hello people?? I am kind of counting on that money for some baby stuff.....maybe even more maternity clothes since I am now being squeezed in these ones! Why do I have to wait for money owed me (in both cases) yet I got my taxes taken TWICE now for something it took them over a YEAR to concede I NEVER owed????(because I pay my child support AND THEN SOME on time for 9 years now) Plus I am bitchy, hormonal, and (as everyone would agree) EVERY penny counts when a baby is on the way!

P.S.: same boss's wife screwed up my FIs paycheck-he works there too-and gypped him out of 16 hours overtime because she was too lazy to check his hours. She guessed and gave out checks 20 mins AFTER closing time. We actually ended up owing a late fee due to that (check being late AND short)....since she didn't fix it til a week later.

PPS: The woman's own daughter has said she gets onto her mom for paying the businesses bills late all the time (with no excuse...they have the money and the time. Instead, she racks up late fees. 

PPS: I want a friggin ice cream. And frappucinno.  and a nap.

Are people trying their damnedest to stress me out? 

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What kind of business is this where the ex makes so little that he only owes $23/week?  Why is the payroll so screwy all the time?  Why does she pay cs for her DD?  Does she not live with her?  Her ex and her FI work together?

6fsn

So there is a 9 yo living with someone else.  The $23 check daddy and she's pregnant?  She's got bigger issues.

*Barbie*

of course she is pregnant.

WTF is wrong with this world when this woman has one child that doesn't live with her, a second that she can't afford, and then gets KU with a third?

 when $23 will make or break you, you should NOT be having a child.

MinM

I wonder how poor the person is who GETS child support from her.

I'll buy her baby for $23. 

 

LnR70707

::trying to count the baby daddies::

So she is paying child support for a DD somewhere, but is also getting support for a DS...and is now currently KU with a 3rd guy.....what a trainwreck.