Is there something wrong with me?

calliejo22

  Why is it that I can only reach the "big o" in one position? 

Gizmo280

nope, 2 g/f's only had one or two that lit the fireworks.

 

mythaldo

Nope! That's not unusual. Be happy you can reach the Big O during sex at all. Some girl can pretty much only get it though vibration (I'm in this group), and some apparently do get it at all (soooo happy I'm not in this group).

DaringMiss

Nope, nothing wrong with you.  Keep exploring, but you always know that you have a sure thing.

sncbride

oh honey, i felt the same way! its totally normal just play with the position and find something you like with it.

ex: leaning back when your on top so you can hit the 'sponge'

glatorre

I was the same way!!  Before I only got the Big "O" if i was on top...Now, through experimenting and trying different things including pace and positioning i've found three new positions that can give me the Big "O."  It's completely now like the PP said "just play with the position and find something you like with it."

Smithlywed

Not weird at all! It's been almost six months of having sex for me and I still haven't reached the O. I got really close a couple days ago, so things are improving! It will be so exciting for me and DH when it finally happens, but I try not to stress about it because I know that only makes it less likely Keep experimenting!

jonnysgirl07

I can have multiple "o"s every time but only when dh is on top. Its been like that for over 6 years and I keep trying. Oh well. I have had one with me on top 3 times and it is SOOOO hard but way stronger O. So needless to say my last 5 months of preg I didn't have one from sex we had to use the vibe because he couldn't get the way I needed him too:)

theluckiest555

Hun, like everyone else said, there is absolutely nothiing wrong with you. I cant have an orgasm through intercorse, only through clitoral stimulation like oral sex or if he uses his hands down there. Not to worry! It's most likely that that is the only position that you and H have done where his penis rubs against your G spot- something that is very hard to do!

BlackDiamond3201

Nope! There is nothing wrong with you. It's not unusual.