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Update on me
DH has decided not to get a lawyer, he just wants this whole thing to be over. He's applied for unemployment and is looking for a new job. In the meantime I'm picking up work during the day and my job has been really great about it. I'm sure I'll get burnt out working all the time, but for now I don't mind. And it's been good for DH to be home with Ben, since he appreciates how hard being a SAH parent can be 
Thanks for all the kind words, I have no idea what the future holds for us but for now we are ok. And we bought tickets to the DMB caravan and a hotel for the weekend a month before he lost his job. We are doing the irresponsible thing and going anyway, rather than selling the tickets. It's the first thing we have planned for us in a long time, and I think we need the escape. We'll be living on PB&J to save money, but it should be a good time 
Re: Update on me
HUGE hugs your way! I hope he finds a new job soon.
And I would still go on your trip. You might need that escape to just have fun, and unless it means your mortgage won't get paid, do it
How did I miss this?? I am so sorry for what happened and I'm glad that you have a little getaway planned so that you can hopefully destress. Hang in there!!
Thanks for the update. I was going to page you to see how you were doing. I think that is good that you are going to the concert. I'm sure you will make up for it in other areas.
Thinking of you as you go through this process.
What does he do? Again, sorry I missed all of this or forgot!
I am so sorry. I'll keep you in my t&p that he finds something relatively quickly. And I agree, I think it is good idea to still go to the concert. It will provide some tension relief that you need.
Hang in there.
He worked for Comcast for the last 6 years, and before that he was a mall security guard. He worked his way from the bottom at comcast and was a supervisor.
He has no college degree, and has only worked for 2 companies in the last 10 years, one of which is no longer in business. Not great for a resume
I've been thinking of you guys a lot lately, and I'm glad you posted.
I know the State is paying for people to go to school for certain training - must be high demand field. I don't know if he'd be interested in that, but, and option.
Hope the job search is a short one.
Well I know there is something better out there for him. Everything happens for a reason! Keeping fingers crossed he finds something soon!