May 2008 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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confession thursday
lay it on us!
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
Re: confession thursday
I can't really think of anything.
I started my period yesterday. I had kinda gotten my hopes up this cycle. Not because our timing was good, cuz it actually really sucked. But because my cycles have been 25 days since stopping BCP and this cycle went 27 days.
I wish we could spend more time on the other side of the state this weekend. I haven't seen my family since New Year's and K has really grown since then. But we're making another trip over at the end of the month for K's 1st birthday party and my sister's open house so we'll be over there for longer then.
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i tried to clean the toilet seat in the mater bath sorta...i mean, i sprayed some stuff on it and it didn't magically sparkle and shine. so i bought a new one. $15 is enough to save my sanity.
i want to give my dog away. i know that sounds awful...but he's a PITA. he's 10 and he marks his territory and i'm scared to death he's going to pee all over the new carpet here. we got a crate for him at night and he starts barking NONSTOP at 4am. every night. killmenow
i am just getting around to freecycling my wedding stuff. i had thoughts that i could sell it, but now i just want it out of here. someone who responded congratulated me on the wedding.
and now that i am getting rid of this stuff i don't want to work i just want to spend today going though all my crap and giving it away. i am so sick of my basement being a disaster area.
I have a few:
I have done no house work this week. I have the time, and am home most of the day, I just don't feel like it. H wants to have people over on Saturday and I'm just not feeling it.
I can't wait till H and I move past the "always have to be in the same room and do everything together phase". As much as I loved watching the NBA finals and Storage Wars with him, I'd rather be in a different room reading. Or not feeling guilty because I have my computer out because I'm bored. I'm not a huge TV watcher. He'll literally watch whatever just to have it on. Nothing like living together to quickly figure out how much you get on each other's nerves.
I'm going to the doctor today to figure out why I have no sex drive. Like at all. You'd think we'd be having tons of newly living together/married sex, but its just not happening. I tried the other night and it was the biggest fail. I'm hoping its my birth control and I can get switched to a different one and have it go back to normal. H is taking it personally, even though I told him it isn't him at all.
yeah....i deal with this as well. it's been 3 years and hasn't gotten better. i know part of it is the weight that he put on...and then the pregnancy, but seirously, i feel mentally like i could go without sex ever again. and that's not normal. i'm not even on BC....so that's not the issue. grrrr good luck!
I'm really really hoping and praying its the BC. We used to have sex at least once a day every time we'd see each other. The last 6 months its been completely gone though. Like we'll have sex once and then I'm good until I would see him 2 months later. I've been having other sexual problems that weren't a problem before BC either. H hates condoms and I'd rather not rely on BC that has to be done in-the-moment.. But dealing with them has to be better than this.
i know, it sucks. my husband has been really good about it and only brings it up every once in a while. i started to have some issues sexually also...pain and stuff that i'd never dealt with. i'm not sure if it's my body's way of telling me that i'm not interested, or a more serious issue. my gyno said that since i'm getting regular periods, it's not hormonal. ugh!
i hope for your sake, it is just the BC. there are many diff kinds...hopefully you can find one that works better.
My H just asked if he could go camping next Weds-Fri. I'm totally fine with it, but I gave him a minor guilt trip b/c Thurs is my doctor's appt. I'm honestly 100% okay with him not being there (he wasn't going to the doctor anyway) so I have no idea why I made him feel guilty. Maybe so he'll leave me a little present?? LOL!
I also ate a donut today, which is my normal confession, so I'll just throw that one in to keep up my record.
Even though H and I only get to talk on Thurs and see each other Fri night- Sun night...I just want to be left alone tonight. I dont want to talk on the phone. I will see him tomorrow night. I had a long day and Im tired.