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Vent/whine/confession? Topic du jour?

Re: Vent/whine/confession? Topic du jour?

  • I hate gardening. Hate it. I am currently weeding the front beds and omg they are out of control. It's embarassing how bad they are. We have planted nothing out front yet, and have really done nothing but rip out a bunch of shrubbery. The bugs that are biting me all need to die a painful death. I already have a HUGE pile of weeds on the sidewalk and I am not quite a quarter of the way done. I sort of want to leave them there for H to clean up, but he probably won't wind up getting off early tonight so they would sit for who knows how long. I love this house so much but I think we really over estimated our abilities/desire to garden/maintain the exterior. I believe that encompassed both a vent and a confession!
    • I'm the only one in the office today and someone keeps calling and hanging up. It's happened at least 20 times this morning and I'm about to lose it.
    • My best friend has a beach house and every year she says she wants me to come and stay there with her, yet she never asks me until the last minute when I already have plans (i.e. today she asks me for this coming weekend - um, hello, it's Father's Day weekend!).
    • Yesterday my Dad introduced me to his "friend" who I believe is his secret girlfriend that he's had for years. I know for a fact that he hangs out with her kids so they've known about him for years. I just think it's very odd and I'm wondering if they're going to get married.
    • I'm really getting sick of waiting to hear if we're going to get this short sale house or not.
    • I made a new recipe for this shrimp pasta on Friday and the whole place still reeks of shrimp and the recipe ended up sucking. It smells like someone sprayed Febreeze in a fish market. Gross.
  • I was able to return to work last Monday and am on an assignment that involves scanning hard copies of files so that they may be stored electronically. I don't yet have all of the access I need to scan and store the files, so I've been pulling the hard copy files and removing staples, paper clips and binder clips.

    I'm on day 6 of this. 

    I'm ready to use my staples to slit my wrists.

  • imagexmaryrickx:
    I hate gardening. Hate it. I am currently weeding the front beds and omg they are out of control. It's embarassing how bad they are. 

    I love this house so much but I think we really over estimated our abilities/desire to garden/maintain the exterior. I believe that encompassed both a vent and a confession!

    This, all of it, exactly.  You bought a short sale, right?  I'm assuming it was vacant for a while?  We bought a foreclosure and ours was vacant for 2 years and OMG it is out of control.  I friggin hate weeding.  We've made some progress but at this point we're pretty much just maintaining the few areas that we've done and haven't had time to start pulling out weeds everywhere else because it takes so much time.  I hate it.

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    imagexmaryrickx:
    I hate gardening. Hate it. I am currently weeding the front beds and omg they are out of control. It's embarassing how bad they are. 

    I love this house so much but I think we really over estimated our abilities/desire to garden/maintain the exterior. I believe that encompassed both a vent and a confession!

    This, all of it, exactly.  You bought a short sale, right?  I'm assuming it was vacant for a while?  We bought a foreclosure and ours was vacant for 2 years and OMG it is out of control.  I friggin hate weeding.  We've made some progress but at this point we're pretty much just maintaining the few areas that we've done and haven't had time to start pulling out weeds everywhere else because it takes so much time.  I hate it.

    it was a short sale, but it was occupied. The previous owners were just absolute idiots and did a horrible job of planting and building beds. The stuff out front is hideous. Which is why most of it got ripped out. The weeds are my fault. I just hate doing it. Plus I was trying to get the back beds under control. I have figured out that this never really happens. I want to be one of those people with tons of motivation who loves to clean, and garden. I am not one of those people. Give me a book, a cocktail and some shade and I am a happy girl. I also hate to sweat. Really, we should have bought a condo ;)
  • imagexmaryrickx:
    I want to be one of those people with tons of motivation who loves to clean, and garden. I am not one of those people. Give me a book, a cocktail and some shade and I am a happy girl.

    Agreed!  I'm much more inclined to read on the deck when I get home from work than weed.  It's not fun.  Something H and I should've considered before we bought a house with so much out of control property to maintain!  Oops. 

  • My birthday was Saturday and my Dad didn't call me or come see me.  I am an only child.  Every birthday he calls me 10:15 (when I was born) and this year he didn't.  It really bothered me and I'm still sad about it.  Our relationship is not what it used to be.
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  • imagexmaryrickx:
    I hate gardening. Hate it. I am currently weeding the front beds and omg they are out of control. It's embarassing how bad they are. We have planted nothing out front yet, and have really done nothing but rip out a bunch of shrubbery. The bugs that are biting me all need to die a painful death. I already have a HUGE pile of weeds on the sidewalk and I am not quite a quarter of the way done. I sort of want to leave them there for H to clean up, but he probably won't wind up getting off early tonight so they would sit for who knows how long. I love this house so much but I think we really over estimated our abilities/desire to garden/maintain the exterior. I believe that encompassed both a vent and a confession!

    Mary, have you ever used Preen? It's FANTASTIC for keeping down weeds. We weed the flower beds, then use mulch with Preen in it (Lowe's has it). Just follow the directions. I think you have to add water right after mulching. There is either no weeding or very minimal weeding all year. And they have Preen pellets too that you can put on the mulch again, instead of remulching. You might not even need to mulch when you use the pellets, I'm not sure...

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  • imageMrsAmber:
    My birthday was Saturday and my Dad didn't call me or come see me.  I am an only child.  Every birthday he calls me 10:15 (when I was born) and this year he didn't.  It really bothered me and I'm still sad about it.  Our relationship is not what it used to be.
    :( I am sorry. That had to ve really hard.
  • Vent: The new girl is driving me nuts. She is the biggest know it all I have ever come in contact with, and I feel the desire to strangle her on a regular basis. Oh, and she doesn't say please or thank you, and she just sits there when work comes in and waits for it to be assigned to her, rather than taking any kind of initiative to start it on her own. AND, she has shown up hungover on at least two occasions. What is it with the just now out of college workforce??
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  • imageMrsAmber:
    My birthday was Saturday and my Dad didn't call me or come see me.  I am an only child.  Every birthday he calls me 10:15 (when I was born) and this year he didn't.  It really bothered me and I'm still sad about it.  Our relationship is not what it used to be.

    That sucks. (I am an only child too, I know how things can be). You have every right to be upset. what was he thinking?

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  • I'm play- mine is house related too...

    My H and I put our house on the market about a month ago.  We had a contract about a week after putting it on the market that was very close to our asking price.  We went through the inspection and had minimal repairs to do.  Last week was the appraisal and our house appraised for about $20K below our asking price!  The real kicker is that that appraisal since it was a FHA buyer is now tied to our house for the next three months or so and can't sell it for more than the appraisal.  Luckily, we don't have to sell right now and will just try again in a year or so or even rent it out...

    It sucks because we interviewed FIVE realtors, and each realtor suggested the same listing price, give or take $5K.  I guess it just goes to show how messed up the housing market still is because banks, real estate agents, and appraisers are not on the same page and everybody loses- we lost on buying a house, our real estate agent lost his commission, and the buyers lost on buying a house.  And then today, a house behind us went on the market for $10K more than our listing price.  WTF?

  • Our lease ends at our apartment on Sunday. We've been living in our house for 3 weeks now so most of our stuff is there. I'm dreading priming the walls and cleaning the apartment SO much. I just want to unpack, but I never feel like it when I get home from work :-/ I feel like we'll never get "moved in".
  • I have one:

    The girls' room is not finished and it's causing me stress! I really hope I don't go early because we need to get Ava in her bed ASAP.

     

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  • Vent/Confession - I'm not a fan of having random political fights on FB, particularly on other people's walls (with one exception) but it's taking a LOT not to respond with some serious snark to a comment that somebody I don't know just made on a friend's status.

    Maybe I'm just crabby, but the comment is just ignorant, and dumb.  And easily refuted.  But it's not worth it to rock the boat, especially since no matter what I say it's not going to change her mind.

    And it'd be waaaaay too rude since I don't know this girl and I know our mutual friend is more likely to side with her than with me...and I don't want to put her in an awkward position.

    But man...it's hard.

  • Vent: I'm so bloated, it's freakn ridiculous! My tummy is distended and I can barely sit up straight. I don't think it's gas but I don't want to think what else it could be. Cyst? what???!! My body's confused, HPTs are still positive 8 weeks after d&c. The earliest I can see my doctor is Friday. In the meantime, I'll be walking around looking 7 months pregnant. Angry

    /end vent.

  • imageMrsAmber:
    My birthday was Saturday and my Dad didn't call me or come see me.  I am an only child.  Every birthday he calls me 10:15 (when I was born) and this year he didn't.  It really bothered me and I'm still sad about it.  Our relationship is not what it used to be.

    I'm so sorry Sad

  • imagexmaryrickx:
    I hate gardening. Hate it. I am currently weeding the front beds and omg they are out of control. It's embarassing how bad they are. We have planted nothing out front yet, and have really done nothing but rip out a bunch of shrubbery. The bugs that are biting me all need to die a painful death. I already have a HUGE pile of weeds on the sidewalk and I am not quite a quarter of the way done. I sort of want to leave them there for H to clean up, but he probably won't wind up getting off early tonight so they would sit for who knows how long. I love this house so much but I think we really over estimated our abilities/desire to garden/maintain the exterior. I believe that encompassed both a vent and a confession!

    I totally hate yard work. I told DH this when we were looking @ houses and basically told him that maintaining the yard was all on him. At least you are doing something. I just say that we have adopted a natural/Bay-friendly landscaping approach.  

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