August 2009 Weddings
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Missing Nestie
Has anyone seen/talked to Erin? I've noticed she hasn't been around.
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Re: Missing Nestie
wow... coincidence that I peeked in to do some lurking
Thank you for thinking of me. I decided I needed to step away from the board a few months ago because I just wasn't in a good place. I'm not expecting anyone to understand or agree, but I just felt like this board was becoming heavily PR - and that's not an complaint about all the pregnant nesties, I'm very happy for you all and wish you all the very best... it's just hard to read about milestones, u/s, bump pics, symptoms, babymoons, etc. I hope that doesn't make any one feel guilty, its not my intention, it's just hard enough to have to hear and see people I know IRL move on to stages where I would be or where I'd like to be again, let alone to willing put myself in that situation on the internet (friends, family, coworkers and good ol' facebook do enough).... I hope no one takes that as I'm unhappy for people, because that couldn't be further from the way I feel, I guess I just don't know how to put it into words....
Other than that, life isn't that great. I was dx with diminish ovarian reserve and have gone through a bunch of testing and monitoring. My grandmother passed away last night, which we knew was coming but my heart breaks for my mom as she decided on Saturday to go out this week to say goodbye. Her flight was this morning so she just missed her chance. She also had her dog pass away last month unexpectly, and she lost her job the month before that. P's company is in the toilet and only has a few months left of survival (its a start up), so he's been interviewing trying to find something stable and new. And I guess to top off the ice cream sundae of suck, I got a BFN this morning...
I'm sorry if this whole post came off super bitter... I'm really not in that bad of place, sounds worse on paper than I feel. It's just been a difficult year to say the least. And I guess mostly I don't want to bring the rest of the board and their joy down with my misfortunes...
BFP#1 11.2.10 | EDD 7.9.11 | HB 7w2d & 8w4d | missed M/C 11w2d | D&E 12.21.10
FSH at 14.5 - 4.21.11 | CCCT - (CD3 8.8,CD10 12.2)| dx w/ DOR @ 28 yrs old
IUI#1 + clomid 8.29.11 (our anniversary)
BFP#2 9.10.11 | EDD 5.21.12 | beta 1 @ 14dpi:232 | beta 2 @17dpi:703 | beta 3 @24dpi:7,174
Baby A HB of 142(7w), 161(8w), 164(9w) | Baby B no HB, Vanishing Twin
We'll just not tell H about this little fact, m'kay?
Ditto
And E- I totally feel you on the PR stuff, it's getting easier now. Thinking of you
::hugs::
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Thinking of you and hope that there is some good news just around the corner.
Cecilia arrived 12 October 2012
The Daily Nugget
Cycle 12, IUI #1 - 33m post wash 10/15/10 = BFN
Cycle 13, IUI #2 - 15m post wash 11/16/10 = BFP, missed m/c, D&C 1/3/11
Cycle 15 - 18, IUI #3-6 = BFN
Cycle 20, IUI #7 = BFP!, missed m/c 9/14, D&C
DE-IVF Aug. 2012: ER 8/30 11R, 7M, 4F; ET 9/4 returned 2
Beta 9/18 #1-820, #2-1699, #3-7124
10/1 1st u/s measuring right on track, 125 bpm
I'm so sorry to hear about all this. I completely understand your need to step away, but please know that we are here for you if you need or want us.
T&P's for your family and big hugs for you.
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w