In-laws are now dead to me!

stormchasersbride

Hi Guys,

I might sound super cruel in this message, that is not my personality at all, but I am DONE!

DH parents have been a nightmare since the day we got engaged literally.  4 months before the wedding FIL called me a B**ch.  My DH told him if he did not apologize than he was not welcome at our wedding.  MIL was still more than welcome.  She  was not allowed to attend (FIL would not allow).  We did not speak to them until recently when I not DH decided that they should know about their future grandchild.  MIL told my DH last night that he needed to apologize to his father and said his dad wanted me to apologize.  WHAT HE HECK?  He cursed at me and I am suppose to apologize. No way in hell.  DH told his mom that was not going to happen and if anything his dad should be apologizing to me.  His mom proceeded to tell DH that he married a B**ch and I was controlling him.  Keep in mind I am the one that thought DH should re-initiate conversation. DH had no interest in talking to them again.  

I am done with these people.  I feel bad, but will  not subject my future child to this bologna.  I feel bad for DH because he is so hurt by his parents actions.  

Some people are just so rude!  Thanks for letting me vent.     

lexiarein

If they're going to be like that, then to hell with them! Sorry your are going through this, I know what it's like to get into it with the in-laws. Hopefully they will come around. Don't be surprised if they conveniently forget about the whole thing when they want to see the baby...

e_jakiela

That's really messed up.  I wonder what exactly they want you to apologize for... like you said, they called you names, and DH was only defending you. I remember you telling us about these issues last year. This is really crazy.  They will be missing out a lot on not having any contact with an awesome little baby you guys will have. Don't get stressed too much, you have a little human growing inside of you, and should be surrounded by happiness and positive vibes, not fighting.

ricarules9837

That really sucks. I'm sorry they're doing this to you and I feel terrible for your DH. I would be so hurt if my parents did this to my husband. Hopefully they come to their senses before you have your baby!