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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
The_Jen
The ladies and I on the 2nd tri have some questions for you.
Re: The_Jen
WOW. I know I'm butting in but I'm glad I did. This is enough for me to stay away from the 2nd tri board. I'm looking for support and not criticism. I know for a fact that I'm far from perfection. I congratuate you on your perfection allowing you to be this way.
I encourage you to invest some time in reading about respect, manners, kindness and if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all. Might be a good time to start with the basics. Specially on online forums where it is so easy to accomplish this. You can ignore posts, skip them. It is also what makes us comfortable to share our stories, no matter how they may be perceived. and since there is about a trillion members on the nest...there will be a few that you will not concur with. So why be mean.
Let those who are not perfect be...otherwise how will you know your perfection.
Just a thought..from a less than perfect person.
WOW. From one less than perfect person to another, I encourage you to get to know your e-friends and make legitimate judgements. Please venture over and gaze upon the support and commrodery.
I will give no support to a girl who wants sympathy for telling us that she fears beating and emotionally abusing her child should it acquire her husband's big genes. I also have no tolerance for a girl who attempts to use a public forum to speak about people behind their backs.
That is what this is about. Should you care to see the wonderful conversations and support that are occuring on a daily basis, I encourage you to take part. I don't feel you would have a negative experience based on your above comments.
Little: I did support Jen. I was the only one that did for a while. There was one day that she got the crap kicked out of her and she privately emailed me and I told her to keep her chin up. I always defended her and joked with her. What she did today was underhanded. There have been other instances that I have brushed aside, but today was enough. Saying that she cant stand us but is stuck with us because our babies will be the same age all the while pretending to want our support is pretty crappy.
You should really know the things she has said, go look up her past posts. Pumpkin told you of the big genes. There was the time she was wanting to change obs because she wasnt allowed to drink, I supported her and told her a glass of wine now and then was ok. She makes herself sound like she cant go without a drink and people had a field day with it.
She cant have it both ways. I am not saying she has to agree with our views or whatever, but she has been around the board long enough that she knows that I, nor any of the other girls, are racist. Maybe we are harsh and joke around too much, but that doesnt make us racist and it doesnt make it right for her to go behind our backs. If she has something to say, she needs to say it to us.