Spicy Friday

JaneGold

How often do you give/receive oral? Is it part of your normal routine, or is it more of a special occurrence? 

JaneGold

Not everytime for us.  It's on the menu maybe 30-40% of the time, though.

MandeeFoFandee

it's pretty much always in the routine as a part of foreplay, and I give way more than I receive. it's pretty rare that oral occurs when we're not actually going to have sex, but when it does, it's always for him, haha. 

raynes

Thanks to the lovely TMJ I received from my wisdom teeth extraction, giving doesn't happen too often.  Receiving?  As often as I'd like it!  Probably 2 out of every 3 times we have sex?

Bailey17

Unless we're just having a quicky we usually both give and receive as part of normal forplay.

JaneGold

I should add that H would love to give every single time and then some if he could. I am pretty particular about when I receive though - I typically don't like to receive unless I am freshly showered (lol) and also I sometimes don't like it as foreplay b/c I am usually kind of grossed out about kissing him after he's gone down on me (unless I'm a little tipsy; then I don't really care.)

abarber340

MandeeFoFandee:

it's pretty much always in the routine as a part of foreplay, and I give way more than I receive. it's pretty rare that oral occurs when we're not actually going to have sex, but when it does, it's always for him, haha. 

Exactly this. It happens for him independent of sex maybe once every 2 months or so. 

kaesha

I give pretty regularly, but I don't like receiving it. I never have.

snoopy3319

It depends on what's going on, but I'm usually not a foreplay kind of person. I have a total man mindset when it comes to sex. Get in and get out, time for bed. It's so sad, but it's just the way I've gotten over the years. DH is super into making me happy and trying to play as much as he can. I guess I have this vision of the movies where you get tossed around and it's this mad rush of excitement.

I'd say we do oral stuff maybe half the time. It's usually just enough to get each other riled up. We rarely finish that way.

Barbett

we both enjoy giving and recieving so he gets it when he wants and so do I

sushisamba

It's more of a special occurrence with us. Both of us prefer actual sex to receiving oral.

rebaann

Pretty much all the time.  We both like to give and receive.

cortneyloo

It happens often for us as our foreplay typically includes oral, unless it's a quickie or the 'throw me on the bed' kind of sex. It's rare that I reach orgasm from it though because I usually get so turned on I just want full-on sex! DH receives more since I actually really enjoy giving plus if it's a time of the month that we can't have sex I'll do that instead.