I was at a conference this weekend with a bunch of people I haven't seen in two years which was well before I got married. I expected a lot of questions about DH and the military but I got one repeatedly that I wasn't expecting. I would be telling people about our upcoming PCS and they would ask how long we would be there. I explained that DH is planning to retire in a little less than 4 years so this is supposed to be the last transfer of his career. The next question many of them asked: "Is he a lot older than you?" I totally understand why they would ask that which is why I find it funny.