Finally spoke my mind to my aunt & mom about BF!!! He was on his way to pick me up on Friday for weekend camping trip (DD was with her dad) & they started to put him down again. Got tired of hearing them say I can do better, find someone who wears suits & makes more money & does not have kids. Told them he does well where he works (hell, he has his Bachelors in Medicine), work does not require a suit, money isn't everything & how would they feel if some man said he would date me b/c i have kids... i shut them up!!
Still looking for that job, trying to figure out other living arrangements... and found out today that my aunt is headed back home on Tuesday!!!
(thanx for all the replies to other....)