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Re: WWYD if a registered sex offender

  • No. Even if you had no contact with them, my first (possibly paranoid) thought would be what if they installed cameras or something?  For every sex offender who would be interested in my property, there are plenty of other non-sex offenders I could find to rent to. I just don't want to interact with sex offenders if I don't have to.

     

  • How long ago was it? And what happened? IDK - they have to live somewhere, I would probably get check extra referrals and then rent to them.
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  • Do  you have an idea of what the offense was and how long ago it was?

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  • Ditto pp's, I would want to know what kind of offense it was. Not all registered sex offenders molested children or raped women. When I was in college a guy I graduated HS with went to a party at Towson when he was 19, a freshman, and had sex with a girl there who also said she went to Towson. Turns out she was still in HS, 16yrs old, and her parents found out after she started bragging about it. He then went on to have to register as a sex offender. I would have zero issues renting my house to him. At all.

    Something more serious I do think I would have a problem with. Consider what will happen if neighbors find out and the potential vandalism that would happen to your house or pictures of the house plastered everywhere. It doesn't always happen that way but sometimes does.

  • I agree I would want to know first what it was for. If it was for something like NDM posted than I would say yes. Anything else, heck no!
  • There would definitely be a lot of stipulations- one that hasn't been brought up is, how emotionally connected you are to the house?  Would you ever want to live there again?  Do you think the neighbors of the house would ever welcome you back, etc?

    There is a house outside my community (so we would never go trick-or-treating there, see this person at our pool, etc.)  but less than a mile from us that is a rental house, a registered sex offender moved in after we bought our house.  An e-mail was sent out by our HOA president alerting us to this fact and I know I have given the house the side-eye ever since as a result. 

    I do not know the owner of the home, but if I lived next door I would have been very upset and likely pissed off at the owner for renting to such a tenant, that being said, I can't imagine it being any landlord's first choice in terms of a tenant.

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  • The reason was rape, but I don't know the details or how long ago it was.  I guess it could have been something consensual but underage, who knows. My big thing is that our rental house literally backs up to a playground/park. You just go out the back fence. Maybe it is just on TV, but are sex offenders even allowed to live next to a park with kids?
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    The reason was rape, but I don't know the details or how long ago it was.  I guess it could have been something consensual but underage, who knows. My big thing is that our rental house literally backs up to a playground/park. You just go out the back fence. Maybe it is just on TV, but are sex offenders even allowed to live next to a park with kids?

    I think so it if wasn't a crime against a child.

    Can you look the person up on the MD Judiciary Case Search to get an idea of how long ago it was and the specific charge?  Rape itself I'd be extremely hesitant to accept as a tenant, but statutory rape would give me less pause.

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  • did the prospective tenant disclose this to you or did you find it on the background check?

     

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  • I wouldn't rent to them.  It would make me feel awful if anything happened while they lived there, and I just don't want any connection to criminals like that. 
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