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Rawr08

Hey hun, I don't know if you remember me, but I saw your reply in the "intro" post.  I am so sorry for your loss hun.  It is really hard to go through.  I hope you have found a good support to help you through this time.  I know there is a mc/loss board on TB if you feel you need someone to talk to. 

I went through a loss with my ex-husband over 3 years ago, and it still hurts.

Just wanted you to know I am sorry and I am sending you tons of love!

diablesse

I remember your screen name from a long time ago.  How are you?

Thank you so very much for the kind words.  I think I'm doing ok.  I'm focusing more on the future, haven't really been thinking that much about the miscarriage.  I was just that 1-in-4.  No biggie.  Maybe I can turn that kind of luck around on a powerball ticket?  

  Plans are to get knocked up by September of 2011. Go spermie!

I see you're off to see a urologist in August?  I hope they can come through for you.
This baby making thing can be frustrating.

Rawr08

Oh I have been good, lurking around checking on you ladies.

I'm glad you are doing ok.  Don't be upset if you feel like you should "be over it" after a few months.  That was my biggest issue, I thought I should have been over it and I wasn't, really made my healing process so much harder.  It was very shocking for me to learn that a miscarriage is so common, yet nobody talks about them.  I think the powerball idea works for you, I'm still waiting! 

We are headed to a Urologist.  I am really nervous and scared.  I never thought we would need medical intervention to have a baby.  I am shocked how hard it is (for us) to get pregnant, all those years I spend taking birth control in either pill form, a shot or even the ring.  Damn you health class for scaring me!

I hope you will get KU by September!  Have you thought about charting?  If you aren't, it really helps.  Fertility Friend is a great website that will help you start.  It does all the charting for you and can even tutor you.  If you would like to check it out, click on the "my chart" link in my siggy.  GL!

 

diablesse

I kinda feel the opposite...like, should I have gotten over it so soon?  Everyone around me handles me with kid gloves, but for the most part, I'm just all about trying again.

I had my D&C follow up  yesterday and we got the all clear to start trying in September.  yay.   I have that to look forward to now.

I know how you feel about all the wasted birth control.  All the wasted worrying about getting accidentally  knocked up.  But then again...it could be just a time thing.  You know very well if you weren't cautious, you would have gotten accidentally knocked up - that's just how the universe works.

I have the fertility friend app on my phone.  I only keep track of my period and when we do the dirty. I haven't really been charting properly I guess.  I'm off to have a look at your chart - off to learn a thing or two.