D.C. Area Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
DOTD - Thursday
I figure if I post these early in the day, I won't forget and folks can respond throughout the day.... 
Today's question is a moral one: "To cheat or be cheated on - what's worse?"
I don't know; I'll be interested to see where you all fall on this. I think to cheat would mean one was seeking a thrill outside from the relationship and also perhaps was lacking a bit (ya think?) on the conscience dept, and to be cheated on would affect one's self esteem in such a way it may be hard to recover. I am not sure which is worse; they are both bad in different ways.
Pam and John
"What is a week-end?"
"What is a week-end?"
Re: DOTD - Thursday
This.
However, I was a cheatee once, and I made it so miserable for the guy, that pretty much everyone I knew (and dated after and heard about it) was terrified to cheat on me.
We make the rockin' world go 'round.
Stand up for something you believe in.
I've been in both situations pre-marriage, but they were more like dating situations, nothing committed or even close to sleeping together. I think it would be worse to be cheated on in a marriage. I'm so trusting, and I love that and would hate to lose it.
I've never cheated and as far as I know, I've never been cheated on. I think both would be really bad, you can probably eventually get over being cheated on but you may never forgive yourself for cheating. I can't choose!