May 2008 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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friday confessions
Let's start the weekend right with an active board today.
i'll start: i find my husband extremely annoying when he is trying to be comforting when i don't feel well. he tries but he seems to always say the wrong thing and i want to bite his head off (and sometimes do). like the other day i was in a lot of pain and he said, "what's wrong?" i was like, "um, i'm in pain. my stomach hurts." then like 5 minutes later he said again, "what's wrong?" i'm like "um, gee, i don't know." i mean it's just not helpful!
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
Re: friday confessions
That is annoying.
My confession is kinda lame, but I was really upset last night when we found out the baby is a boy. Not because it was a boy, but because I knew it was a girl and I was wrong. I hate being wrong. Plus everyone kept telling me I was having a boy and since I am so contrary I wanted to prove them wrong.
Well you said they couldn't get a good look....maybe you really are right!
Oh, I take back my yay then! It's definitely a girl and that was just her toes and the cord they saw. Definitely a girl.
It's ok. I am over my disappointment and totally excited about having a boy now. I think I just needed to get used to the idea since I was so sure it was a girl.
Oh, okay. Then yay boy again!! LOL!
My confession is maybe not a confession - I guess I just feel odd about it. I got another negative this month which puts total baby making at 1 yr 8 months. I feel like I should be crying and sad at this point, but I'm just getting more and more indifferent by the day. I am not temping, hardly charting, and really just want it to happen on it's own. I have no idea why I'm so against "working for it" and wanting it to just happen. I think I'm just too non-chalant about everything, which may be fine in other life aspects, but in this I think it's a problem, but I'm doing nothing to fix it.
let's see...I think I have a few
1) I was secretly mad at DH for staying home sick for 3 days this week. He went with his dad and a friend to the lake last weekend and I know he drank a ton. So it was supposed to be an overnight trip just to pull the boat out of the water which turned into staying all weekend. So when Monday came around and he said his stomach hurt, I didn't even respond. I figured he just needed to detox from the weekend. Well he spent the next 3 days on and off the toilet. (TMI?) Mind you I have had a sinus infection since the 1st and I haven't missed a day of work. Even when I was puking all day early in the pregnancy, I didn't miss a day. I just hate his work ethic sometimes. Suck it up and take some anti-doo-doo pills and get to work.
2) I can't concentrate at work and get frustrated when the phone rings or my pager goes off and I need to do something. I guess I shouldn't be talking about work ethic, huh??
3) I started taking an antibiotic for my funk and now that I am starting to feel better, I can't use it as an excuse to ward off my horny husband. I just don't have the sex drive like I did when i was pregnant before.
I'm 29, but H is 32. He's ready, but he says it's no big deal if we have kids or not. I know he's lying. My mom on the other hand asks every time she calls now which is really odd for her. She's normally not pushy or "that type" of mom at all.
...and LOL at the anti-doo-doo pills. I don't know why, but I find that hilarious.
I have a few myself this week.
1. I made cookies for my first order. 6 dozen to me more accurate. Last night I was unsure of them, figured they'd be fine, and brought them in anyway. When I get them there, they were stuck together and utter ***. I got the chef's version of a dressing down. I've never felt dumber.. and I have to remake the entire order.. out of pocket.
2. I'm beyond pist at J for not getting on the ball about finding another job. He's known for months about an impending lay-off, and has chosen to wait for the "official you're gonna be sacked soon" letter to start looking. Why did he wait? I have no clue. And we have no savings because he never put my money back after using it.
3. I'm tired of hearing "I love you" It's a phrase that seems to mean so little, because it's said so often. It's like "I'm sorry"