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If one more person...

....says to me "How can you not find out what you're having? I had to (or in some cases will have to) find out because I'm a planner" I seriously will have to freak the eff out. I'm not even kidding....since Thursday 4 (yes 4!) people have said this to me (not to mention the countless times I've heard this exact statement since May). So lemme get this straight, I can't plan or do anything until my baby is born? Crap, I guess I better go find out now since I only have 3 months left to plan!!! Oh and btw....I'm not revealing the names we are thinking about so basically you (not you nesties but the "planners" who think I want their 2 cents) can kiss my already big and still growing azz. Ok vent over. Thanks for reading and enjoy your weekend :)
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Re: If one more person...

  • Soooo really you guys don't plan on finding out what you're having? ;)
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  • Oh and I'd like to add that I'm not against finding out the sex of a baby before birth. If we have another, I will probably find out.
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  • imagei3utaphly1:
    Soooo really you guys don't plan on finding out what you're having? ;)
    Well maybe I'll just have to change my mind now lol
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  • i give team green credit. i could never wait 40 weeks to find out if its a boy or girl.. i needed to know!! kudos to you! 
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  • imagenybride10:
    i give team green credit. i could never wait 40 weeks to find out if its a boy or girl.. i needed to know!! kudos to you! 
    Thank you! I'm not going to lie, it's not easy for me. At.all. Lol
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  • I feel your pain darling. We were team green too. We got those comments ALL THE TIME. I promise that moment in the delivery room is worth putting up with all the annoying things people say about it. Trust me!! It's such an awesome surprise.
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  • I'm actually truly enjoying being team green and think the moment we find out will be worth it's weight in gold. It's weird, some people LOVE that we are team green and others ask the same questions and give the same comments. I'm also a "planner" and I don't find being team green affects that at all. I just plan without everything being pink and blue. My favorite is the in laws telling me THEY need to know what it is cause how are they supposed to buy anything without knowing.
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  • damned if you, do damned if you dont. We find out and everyone keeps telling me we wasted the last big surprise in life. Get over it peeps Its my life and our kid. I feel ya sista
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  • Just tell them you are planning to have a baby human and that you'll be really disappointed if it turns out to be a baby koala or something.
  • I loved being team green with DS. I do feel bad for knowing with this one but I am still not sure if they were right. SO now I preface the do you know what your having with if they are right it's a girl.  However it looks much harder to cloth a team green baby now then 8 years ago. Everything that is gender neutral seems to go to one sex or another.  Enjoy it!!! Tell them well they can find out when they have their baby but you wanted a surprise.
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  • Just one more comment in a string of butting-in-ness. Do people not realize that it is none of their business? 

    FWIW, I'm trying to convince DH to be Team Green this time :)

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  • Come on find out for me hahahahaha just kidding....

    I love your dedication to team green! I could never do it cause I just want to know but more power to you. I was team green not by choice with A since he felt the need to hide himself. I will stock up on green and yellow for you and then spoil the crap out of he or she with more when the baby gets here. Stand by your choice and be proud of it. You are way stronger than me :-) Love ya!

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  • imageMargieMags:
    Just tell them you are planning to have a baby human and that you'll be really disappointed if it turns out to be a baby koala or something.

     

    Yes 

    I really hate how people can be in your face and give such unwanted advice/comments.  

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  • Nik- CHRIS and I  NEED to know so we can  you cute clothes when shopping all the time!! So TELL US!

     JK lol  

     I can only imagine T's list of names for the baby.

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  • Omg I'm not even TTC and FIL already voiced his opinion on how we HAVE to find out when the time comes.  I was like wtf this isn't your child and we're not pregnant!  I hope to stay team green when the time comes.  Stay strong ha!!
  • You are hardcore my friend, and I give you and T a lot of credit. You guys are gonna love that child regarless, eff everyone else. xo
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  • I just think it means you are unprepared for the baby if you dont know what sex youre having.

    i mean.

    they dont sell white, green, yellow and beige clothes.

    lol

  • imagelisa5ny:
    I feel your pain darling. We were team green too. We got those comments ALL THE TIME. I promise that moment in the delivery room is worth putting up with all the annoying things people say about it. Trust me!! It's such an awesome surprise.
    This, but I have to say it was even worse being pregnant with twins!!  But ditto this entire post!! 
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  • You can have so much fun with the comments on this one.  Maybe offer to sell the baby to them if it comes out the "wrong" sex or you're doing it to punish people since your pregnancy is really all about them (next time they should send you the memo through a process server).  Seriously, people are really rude though.

    My Dad and ILs did not want us to find out the sex.  ILs were normal about it.  We had to keep it a secret from my Dad, but the cat was out of the bag when he saw the color blue had vomited all over my shower.  (Told him not to come help pick up the loot.... I bet he really wanted to know the whole time)

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  • I was team green last time... And it was exciting.. And chris cried when he went outside and got to say "it's a girl" :-) but people said the same comments to me too. I am undecided if we will be team green next time.. It would be nice ahead of time if we have to go buy a whole new wardrobe ... But most of k's newborn is neutral. But the surprise was nice too. :-)
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  • Glad to hear I'm not alone when it comes to this topic. I'm convinced that some people are just that stupid lol. Thanks girls :)
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