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Best one yet.

One of our friends invited us to a dinner party.  I thought oooh, fun...food!  I'm in!

Then, I learned that a woman would be cooking us dinner.  She was driving up from Texas to do this in order to sell a line of cookware.

H's friend and his wife and myself and H would be the only ones in attendance besides the woman doing the cooking and her husband.

I looked up the cookware line and a very basic set retails for $998.  Almost $1000.  Seriously?  That is not what I want to spend my money on.

I text her and told her I wasn't interested in buying cookware, and didn't feel comfortable with this woman driving from TX to try to sell me something I had no interest in.  I suggested maybe we could do dinner and a movie sometime and that I was sorry for backing out.  I feel like a total b!tch for backing out, but dang.  I can handle a Scentsy brick for 4 bucks, a jewelry line for $30-40 per piece...a package of dip for $7.50.  But $1k?  NO.

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Re: Best one yet.

  • Good for you for backing out! I would feel like a sh!tty friend for inviting friends over for a "dinner party" where I want them to buy things. That's ridiculous.
  • Seriously? Who buys a $1000+ set of pans at a pretty-please-buy-my-stuff party? Pans last a long time and most people already have then, unlike candles which get used up.
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  • Whoa dude. Super awkward. No shame in canceling.
  • I am speechless. You did the right thing.
  • Agreed. This was shitty of her.

     Let's say for sake of argument (doubtful) that they are the best pans on earth. I'd NEVER spend $1000 on pans without doing tons of research first. Did she think you were just going to buy them that night?

  • yea, thats a little crazy!
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  • DH and I did this once but we knew what to expect and it was with a larger group. "Dinner" consisted of 1/4-1/2 of a chicken breast and a couple of green beans. I would be pissed if someone tried to pressure us into that. Especially one-on-one. I'm glad you backed out and wouldn't feel bad it at all.
  • Yeah...my H and I did that once, too. Not fun. I'm glad you backed out!
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  • To me it was pretty ballsy of your friend to invite you over for a "dinner party" when it was actually some overpriced cookware party. $1,000 on cookware is insane! I would have backed out too.
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  • This girl is so so sooo sweet.  That's why I don't think she intended to pressure me into anything.  I really think her friend asked her to host this for her and she was just desperately searching for a couple.  She has gotten into selling some jewelry (she's having a party tonight, actually) and so I think the deal with that is that if she hosts a party for her, the other will return the favor.  But like I said--inexpensive jewelry?  Fine.  $1k cookware?  No way dude.

    Also, I've been married a little over 6 years.  My cookware is perfectly fine.

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  • Dude, no way.

    I love my cookware. And do you want to know how old my cookware is? There's a photo of it sitting on the gift table at my grandparent's wedding in 1957. I still use it (I've purchased a few nonstick pans through the years, but that's it), and it is amazing.

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