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This article came out this morning...
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/health/new-health/health-news/canadian-mds-consider-denying-fertility-treatments-to-obese-women/article2173941/page1/
Basically, some Canadian doctors are considering denying fertility treatments to women over a certain BMI (considered obese).
I'd be interested to hear what you think about this.
I'm a bit on the fence...I understand the risks, but I also think it's a mistake to put in place a blanket policy that excludes everyone over a certain BMI level. I think more care should be given to looking at the health of individual patients. I know some people who are much thinner than me who are in terrible shape.

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Re: Your opinion please...
Usually I'm not one to tout the snowball argument, but in this case I really can see a snowball effect resulting from this decision. If women who are obese (not even morbidly obese, just obese) lose their fertility rights, what about other high risk pregnancy cases? Little people/dwarves?
I do think this article isn't giving enough information, though. There seems to be very concrete reasons why so many countries are debating this issue--reasons that go beyond severe bias towards fat women. I'd be very supportive of a law that required that any women be denied treatment if there was a very real possibility that they could harm themselves. As the doctor said, "A patient doesn?t have the right to make a choice that?s going to be harmful to them". I agree. But that harm has to be the risk of serious injury or death.
But I also think that if there is only a moderate risk for others, then the patients should simply be sat down and have all the risks and side effects explained thoroughly. But the decision left up to them.
As a lot of you already know, I'm a bit of a fat-activist. According to BMI charts (which are hogwash) I'm morbidly obese. It's not hogwash that I'm morbidly obese, because I am. It's hogwash that BMI is a measure of someone's supposed health. Please see the slideshow I'll post below.
Anyway, according to this thinking, I should not be allowed to have children. Nice!
There was a story recently that some doctors in (I think) Florida are going to stop taking obese and overweight patients in their practices. It's all just assinine, IMO.
Here's a story about that: http://blog.twowholecakes.com/2011/05/real-quick-the-chicken-and-the-egg/
And here's that slideshow I mentioned: http://kateharding.net/bmi-illustrated/
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Oh...what an awesome slideshow that is!
According to the "charts", I should be 125 lbs. Good lord. The smallest I've been in my adult life is 159 lbs and that's when I was training for half marathons. I could not get any smaller (in a healthy way, anyway).
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TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad spermFor my height and frame, I "should" weigh 100lbs. I was 115lbs when I was in the 5th grade. I was also just an inch shorter than I am now, in the 5th grade. I was also a freaking 10 year old who hadn't hit puberty yet.
I'd say that my "ideal - looking" weight from adulthood was just under 190lbs. It may have been my "ideal" as far as looks or whatever you wanna call it, but it's not ideal for my happiness, that's for damn sure. I was miserable at that weight. Eating under 1,000 calories and 19grams of fat a day, and also taking Fen-Phen and we all know how healthy THAT made all the fat people back in the 90's.
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Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12