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Latest condo news.......

ugh, well this chick has given her agent a copy of her lease and their closing atty is looking at it.  That's about as much as I have right now.

I offered that I could raise the pur price and then pay her lease fees in order to do this (wouldn't cost me a thing, same bottom line to me) as it would get her out of the lease, get me out of the condo and would only be like an extra $20/mo on her mortgage.

apparently this chick doesn't get it - like mortgage payments (did I mention she is 48 and one would think she would since she's in the financial industry - WTH?!!?!?) and that you can't just get out of your lease.  And apparently she's done that b/f with success.  But if you want the condo - fight for it then to get out of this lease. 

It's just thard when you're on this side of it.  I'm emotional about it.  I cried a lot last night and DH was a champ.  To the point I'm like if I can't handle this I can't handle other changes, us buying another house, us having kids, I'll be a horrible mom, stupid crap - can't believe I let it affect me like this!!!

anyways, keep praying, maybe God will have an affect on her to make a wise decision and get the condo somehow - GOD WILLING!!!!

Thanks yall  Wink

Re: Latest condo news.......

  • Saying my prayerss for you dear! I understand the feeling!
  • katie, i know it's GOT to be frustrating but i think you'll come out of this ok. I can't believe she doesn't get it..what's so hard to understand about a mortgage? and at 48?  jeez
  • Sounds like she needs a lesson in her own business!

    Girl, you will be a GREAT mother!! Don't let this get you down...I'm still praying for ya :)

  • yall are too sweet.

    yeah, I'm like "you realize that this chick only has to just stay in from eating ONE night in ATL when it's just an extra $20/mo on her mortgage!?!?!!?"

    DUH.  I'm like WTH?!?!!?!?  I swear.  For her it's a matter of principle.  Like when she was attament (sp?) about having a home warranty on the offer - uh yeah, had that b/f - they are crap.   They really don't do anything b/c they don't REPLACE anything, just fix minors..... but she wanted to be protected, fine.  So w/this lease, it's a matter of principle again - she thinks she should be able to get out free and clear - where is she from?!!?!?

  • I'm sorry this is so frustrating for you.  It's easy to tell, even over the internet, that you are have a warm personality and will make a great mother.  Just try to stay focused on the positive no matter how hard it is.  I'm praying for you and hoping everything works out.
  • I'm sorry this is so tough.  Things in life do get frustrating, but don't start doubting yourself!  You're going to be great at anything you want and do.  I'm praying for you!
  • I'm sorry you're having such a rough time right now!  Prayers continue to be said...
    Siggy coming soon....
  • awwwh, yall are THE BEST.
  • Ugh, Katie, she sounds like a real dope.  Hang in there - I'm sending as many good vibes your way as I can!  I hope she wakes up and this all works out for you!
  • Girl - I hate that you are being put thru all this crapola.  I really hope it works out!!!  And soon!!!!
  • Again, many thanks for all the prayers and support - keep them coming and hopefully it will work out.  I'll keep yall posted.
  • I'm praying for you!!!
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