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Re: Play Spent
I ran out of money on Day 23 because I decided to pay $400 for the sick dog instead of putting it to sleep or letting it suffer. Sounds like me.
How is it that my BABY is going to be 3?
BFP-2/25/11; 8 Wk U/S-3/25/11-No HB, measured 6.5 wks; D&C
A little dramatic, yes. But we all know: when it rains, it POURS.
Yeah. It's just that I played it twice, (just to compare) and it screws you every way possible no matter what option you choose. It's never the right one. Plus, with a lot of options, you would have the info that it gives you after you make the decision BEFORE you'd have to make the decision. I ended with a little over $300...I just think they did everything possible to make it worst case scenario. I just saw it to be a bit ridiculous...not really eye opening. Oh well.
Exactly. Not that it happens all the time, but it easily CAN happen, and that's all it takes to put you in a hole from which you can never recover. No matter how sensible your choices. It's not just lazy people who end up poor, like some all-too-public figures would have you believe.
It made me sad knowing this is the reality for likely millions of people/families.
How is it that my BABY is going to be 3?
BFP-2/25/11; 8 Wk U/S-3/25/11-No HB, measured 6.5 wks; D&C
It was just stuff like (as an example) I HAD to get groceries and it put my bank account to $48...and then I was charged a huge fee for being under $50 (never had a bank that did that with a checking account) I highly doubt there wasn't a single scrap to eat in the house to where I couldn't have put it off and waited a day to get paid if I had known that the bank would charge a fee. And in real life I would have known about that fee.
Also, with the manual labor job you got screwed no matter which way you chose to get paid. I don't know...I was a broke college student, but in my last 2 years I got by without any help from my mom. I just think there are so many alternatives to the options it forces you to choose. I get that these are real life problems, I just don't think your only options to not go broke are to ignore chest pains, tell your mom she'll just have to die, kill your pet and live with rotting teeth...but it doesn't matter because you have no food to chew anyway. lol They're trying to make a horrible situation even more dramatic and it's not needed.
I am 100% aware of this. I am probably one of the very last people who would ever even for a second correlate laziness to poverty. It's kind of condescending to assume someone would think that. I don't think it's not an issue or that this can't be reality. It was the "game" I was having an issue with. I just didn't think it was that eye opening for me because it's kind of like, "No shiit. Of course this stuff can happen. It happens to people all of the time...and it's horrible" Clicking through a little game didn't give me some big ah-ha moment.
I guess my thoughts are that this type of thing is hardly ever effective for the intended audience. The people that seem to get it are the ones that already got it anyway. Sometimes I just get annoyed with the attempts to add drama to an already horrible, very real situation.
True. I guess awareness in any form can be a good thing.