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Dramz
I carpooled to the airport with another wife from H's class last week. She was all gossip-y, which I didn't mind listening to, but it definitely convinced me not to tell her anything of substance about myself, ever.
Anywho, she told me that another wife, A, and her H have been TTC for a while and recently started fertility treatments. I knew they were TTC but I didn't really know that they were having trouble.
There are two other ladies in our class who are PG, one accident and one who was trying for a few months. Apparently, A is so peeved that this other lady (the accident one) is PG that she started spreading rumors that she was PG before she got married and that's why she got married. First, it's not true. They got PG on their honeymoon, about 3 weeks after they got married. Second, even if that was true, who cares?
Evidently she was also openly hostile to another wife in our class who was PG when she got married, as if it really matters. I get that IF can be difficult and that everyone deals with it differently. I totally get the need to vent and feeling like life is not fair when people who aren't trying get PG and you don't. However, I feel like in that situation I would vent to people who don't travel in the same circles and I can't imagine ever openly begrudging someone their baby to their face.
I'm kind of glad I don't live on base and I'm not a part of this jazz on the daily.
Re: Dramz
So true. Why in the world would someone make up stuff that is not true about someone else. I just don't get it. Not to mention who cares if the women was PG before she got married. It is 2011 and it is not like we live in the Puritan times!
People annoy me and she sort sounds a little jealous of the PG person. I know it hard to want to be PG and not be able to become PG as easy as others but that does not give a person the right to spread lies about someone else.