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Nestie Survey: What do you hate most about the holidays?

Hi Nesties,

 

Help us with a survey for The Nest!

 

Although there's much to love about the holidays (seeing family and friends, decorating, gifts J) there are also some things we all dread. So tell us, what do you hate most about the holiday season?

 

Thanks! 

Re: Nestie Survey: What do you hate most about the holidays?

  • Family Drama! people forgetting why and what we are celebrating!
  • the focus on buying everything in sight with no regard for budgets.
  • I hate that the whole season has become one big PC fest, people forget that it's called CHRISTmas for a reason. (Even if Christmas was changed from a pagan holiday to a Christian one!)

     

  • The rushing around! Even though, DH and I spend Christmas Eve with DH's family and the first 1/2 of Christmas day with my parents, and the rest of Christmas day with just the 2 of us, I wish would could spend more time with everyone.

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  • Ugh buying gifts! I wish it was more about just spending time as a family then seeing who can outdo who with a better gift!
  • The cost of it.

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    CJ :-)
  • psh, people actually think seeing family is one of the things to LOVE about the holidays?!?! haha--- not with our family! i always dread the drama, the miscommunications, the inane small talk, the misconceptions, and the general annoyances that remind me of why i see some of these people only once a year.
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    psh, people actually think seeing family is one of the things to LOVE about the holidays?!?! haha--- not with our family! i always dread the drama, the miscommunications, the inane small talk, the misconceptions, and the general annoyances that remind me of why i see some of these people only once a year.

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    CJ :-)
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    I hate that the whole season has become one big PC fest, people forget that it's called CHRISTmas for a reason. (Even if Christmas was changed from a pagan holiday to a Christian one!)

     

    This.  I remember in school we had CHRISTMAS parties, you'd never hear that term in school today (even though 99% of the population celebrates Christmas - ok, maybe a little less but it's still  a large majority).

  • Grinchy negative people are my least favorite. I love the holidays and enjoy spending Dawali, Hanukkah and Christmas with my friends and family. I have one side of my family that always argues and the winner is generally who ever can yell the loudest, but it's all in fun. I love that I can see all three sides of the family and I don't have to worry about hurting families feelings trying to manage. (I feel very lucky and blessed in that regard). That does remind me of a couple things though....I hate that my sister, niece, nephew and BIL live so far away and don't always come home for christmas, and I hate christmas blizzards that snow me in so I can't go to christmas eve church and miss being with my family christmas morning. Oh and I hate that my favorite christmas bakery is closed. I love the lights, trees, decorating, shopping, music, cooking, food, baking, christmas cards, advent season, seeing the plaza lights turn on, seeing the new target, Coke and Macy's christmas ads, the christmas specials and Elf, Polar Express, Nutcracker, I think I'll stop listing here!
  • The time split! We grew up in the same town, so both our families and most of our close friends are in the same area. It's great most of the times, but during the holidays it can make the fun of seeing everyone stressful. So many people we want to see and spend time with, but only so much time that we're in town. 

    They understand and are really good about it, but it's always hard trying to keep the time split fairly without feeling like we're hurting anyone's feelings or letting people feel left out. It would almost be easier to alternate holidays so we could spend all of 1 with one side, and all of 1 with another instead of constantly rushing around. 

     Stressful but worth it in the end :)

  • I hate that so many people get up in arms about the PC (saying it's CHRISTmas, for example). You can celebrate winter holidays without making them religious, and the focus can still be on love, kindness, and generosity without needing to specifically affiliate it with any religion (or group of religions).

     

    I'm not trying to start a fight here. Personally, I am Catholic and I celebrate Christmas. Just stating my opinion that some people go overboard with hating on the PC.

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  • Buying gifts. It's expensive, but never good enough. Plus the rushing around, crowds at the stores, ughhh. I'd rather just spend time with the family.
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  • I work in retail, so the holidays are super busy for us. I miss out on alot of family get togethers, and the shopping isn't as much fun.
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