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Oh no you didn't! Gotcha DD!
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JNL$LSM
Joined on 09-09-2008
3,155 Points
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You do not have a SIL problem you have a DH problem. Of course they are not going to like you, he keeps running back to then any time you all have a problem. My DH did that ONE time and I made it very clear that if he EVER did that again he would need to stay with them for GOOD. That is their child and brother, of course when he talks about you it is all your fault, they are going to take his side and agree with him.
Family is no there when you all make up, he has made it a habit to talk to them about you alls problems, which brings them involved. I think your DH needs to talk to his sister and family and explain that he is sorry for bringing them into you alls marriage, that you two are working on your marriage and would life for their support. They may still have a hard time being ok with you knowing the "pain" you cause their brother/son. |
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LDetmer
Joined on 04-14-2010
78 Points
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ok. Well I just wanted advice about working things out with his sister. Not advice to leave my husband or to let him leave me. Thank you anyway. |
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Re: Oh no you didn't! Gotcha DD!
YES! I was just in the middle of telling her that there was no fixing the relationship with her SIL, since her husband broke it probably for good.
I can't believe she thought we'd give advice on repairing the relationship with her SIL when at the end of the damn post her husband is threatening to divorce her. I mean, really, which issue is more important here?
I don't know why but I am still amazed at what women will focus their energy on.
You are right, there is no fixing this. He ruined her relationship with her family for good.
I tried to delete mine after I saw you caught it, but imagine i cant delete mine...lol
I love when the ones in complete denial DD.
Her and her H sound like 2 year olds....who fights that much??? Then her H goes on to prove how big of a child he is by running to his sister everytime they have a fight. Pretty mature relationship they have going on.
Well, I guess the bright side is she has her sil to blame!