I'm meeting with a divorce attorney next Wednesday. It was originally scheduled for Friday but I had to cancel due to work obligations. I'm a little nervous. Thankfully, I work in a law firm (legal assistant) and I can get this done for practically no money out of my pocket (filing fees, etc). Thanks to my wonderful boss.
I am going to look at 2 apartments on Friday and Saturday so I can stop being a pain in the butt to my family members since I've been crashing at their houses since last week.
I am practically broke since I've been putting everything I make on various credit card debt, I have very little money saved. As I was talking about this to my boss, he agreed to help me out even more by giving me an advance on my xmas bonus for the first months rent, deposit, pet fee, and moving expenses. Which is a relief. Once that little bit is done, I can afford everything else with no problem at all.
Now if only i can get STBXH from being mean to me while I'm trying to leave, life would be so much better. He told me today that I was being selfish because I said that I deserve a life better than how I've been living. Great! I can write a novel about the crap he's been emailing me and texting me the last few days.
I'm trying to remain positive...
Re: Checking a few things off the list