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VENT!!!! BF's XW!

I HATE HER!!!!! Ok, we were supposed to have his son this weekend. All of a sudden today the XW decides she "doesn't know me well enough" and doesn't like the fact that she doesn't know where her son is going. She sent BF a long email about it and said basically that BF being in his son's life is causing too many problems with son, even the school agrees... ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME?!?!? I could understand the not knowing me bit IF DS hadn't stayed with us in the past on numerous occasions... Guess who's talking to a lawyer this week? This is the THIRD weekend in a row she had denied BF seeing son. Ladies with kids, I hope this doesn't offend you. I can understand your positions. BF is a GOOD father, goes to school things, pays child support, calls every night, spends time with DS... I've been around for over a year now and been nothing but good to that kid. I love him to death and I was in tears when BF told me she decided we couldn't have him this weekend... I just had to vent. Thanks ladies!

Re: VENT!!!! BF's XW!

  • I hope that your BFs lawyer can sort through this quickly.  She doesn't get to pick and choose which weekend her son goes over if there is a custody agreement in place.

    She doesn't need to know you well enough.  She just can't let go.  It's too bad that she is choosing to harm her son by using him in this way.

    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
  • SInce they're divorced, I"m assuming there's a CO in place for visitation? Have your BF file a written complaint with the courts that his XW is denying him visitation. In my state, if a complaint goes past 7 days without being filed with the courts, it's like it never happened.
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