Had a great day with WG (workout girl) on Sat. We went for a 5 mile run at 6 AM on Saturday morning....she even altered her normal running routine just for me because I coach my son's soccer team and had to get back for that.
We met up again for dinner and drinks that night. I even managed a couple kisses before it was all said and done.
She invited me over to her place tonight so she can cook dinner and watch MNF. I mentioned I would bring some nice wine, but she preferred rum instead...how awesome is that!
If there is one thing that concerns me in the back of my head it is this.....she is 28 without children. I am 35 and have children...I am snipped and do not want more children whether it be getting my vasectomy reversed or adopting. The perfect woman could come along and I wont be changing my stance on that.
I know I just need to enjoy spending time with her, but I cant help wonder if she has designs of starting her own family someday. Again way too early to be worried about this but I cant help it...hahaha.
Re: Success!
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Glad you had fun JM! That is not my kind of date, but more power to you both!
I think if she really wants to have children it will probably come up in a few dates. I asked L if he would like to have more children in the future on our second date. I think it's best to get "dealbreakers" out of the way before getting attached.
Don't worry about the kid thing yet, or if you can bring it up in a conversation. Ask her if there are any dealbreakers for her. I have had this asked by every single guy either online or in the first few dates.
Also, not every single woman wants kids. My friend met a girl - 26 and she never wants kids. He was married at 24 (divorced now) and his wife also didn't want kids.
I have noticed that many guys who are have children do not want anymore and put it out there early.
Good luck! And for now just enjoy what you have!
Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'd worry about those concerns later.
Sounds great!
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.