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The statue of Limitation
I recently had a heated argument with my husband of 16 months about a relationship I had 25 years ago. Issue is that he feels that I have portrayed him for not disclosing this information of this man who he played pop warner football with as a youth he says that the family of this man was like family to him yet we didn't invite them to our wedding. The relationship was in the past and insignificant since it was so long ago....He now thinks I am withholding my past from and states his street light is on...is it me or is that crazy ?
Re: The statue of Limitation
We're kind of going out.
Someone you dated 25 years ago.... what? Who cares? Seriously?
hee hee
Missed M/C 11/5/2010 @ 5 weeks, 3 days* D&C 12/3/2010 at 9 weeks, 3 days
Ditto Melinda.
Dead at Lucky.
What is his street light?
Your H needs to calm down.
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No I think she is saying that her husband is feels betrayed because of a previous relationship she had 25 years ago with someone he played pop warner football with ? Her husband also claimes to be close to this other man's family, however she is wondering how close they can be if they weren't even invited to the wedding ?
At least that is what I think she is saying.
That's what I got from her post too, stw.
Your H is overreacting. 25 years ago? He needs to get over it.
This man who then was a boy/teen wasn't my ex anything he is someone I had a date with at the age of 19, a hamburger no more no less...My husband wants to fight wants to get a reaction wants to be the victim at every turn of the imagination.
Does he often try to start ridiculous fights with you?
I can't fathom giving a damn who my H dated that long ago.
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Well if you've given your H no reason not to trust you, maybe HE's the one who's not trustworthy.
Maybe you should, um, turn YOUR street light on. And be sure to let your H know it's on, so he knows just how it feels to have your, uhhh, partner's, um, street light on. Casting light upon the sidewalk from above as such.
Word.
How many times did you f*ck your husband's friend?
You and your Husband need marriage counseling.
Well there is obviously something else going on here if he is still freaking out about it and it's something as minor as one date.
You two need counseling and if that doesn't help you need attorney's.
Ask your husband to provide you with a list of every girl he hung out with, every girl he has eaten a meal with, every girl he's talked on the phone with, every girl he's dated, and also to provide details of every interaction, conversation and flirtation.
Yes, it's absolutely him that's crazy. It's not you. Just tell him to get over it. If he can't get over it, then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. I can't imagine my husband being upset that I got a hamburger with someone so long ago.
Is your husband a vegetarian, perhaps?