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Hi, I just saw your post from yesterday and I wish I could drive to you right now and give you a hug and words of encouragement.
There are SO many ways I want to help ...but I especially want to talk right now about the depression/anxiety issues, because I have that too. My anxiety destroyed my confidence when I had my DD (who is 9 months old). It was the worst in my life & I've had depression since I was 16. My overwhelming feeling was that I was inadequate as a mother and I questioned if my baby would be better off with someone else. In fact, I started seeing my current counselor when I realized how often adoption was crossing my mind.
I can gladly call my doctor & therapist for you, and ask if they can take you pro bono. They are both women and have helped me tremendously. However, they're both in Clear Lake, and I know that's a big commute for you. As an alternative, I could ask them to email me some referrals of pro bono therapists inside the loop and/or resources to try. I have a strong feeling both of them will have great suggestions.
I also have a friend whose father is an attorney and I can ask about pro bono possibilities for you. He may not be the one doing it, but he has a generous heart and would be glad to refer you to some colleagues.
One other thing I want to offer...I would be glad to help you with your job hunt. I'm a SAHM and my background is in journalism, so I would be glad to proofread your cover letters & resume for you. In fact, I'd be glad to job-hunt listings for you. I don't know what size of clothing you wear, but you are welcome to have many of my professional clothes for interviews, etc. because I don't need them anymore & have been meaning to donate them....perhaps it was intended all along for you to have them.
Finally, I belong to a church that would LOVE to help. If you are open to it, I would gladly call up some other moms at church and we'll put our heads together & get some solutions for you - especially your housing.
I know this is loooong & I hope it doesn't come off too strong. I couldn't sleep tonight & decided to Nest. I really believe that I came across your post for a reason.
Please, please take care of yourself, and let me know if you'd like to do any of the things I mentioned. I'll also XP this on the 9-12 month board.
Big hugs, girl. Most of all, know you are not alone. I am here for you, and it sounds like many others on the Houston board are too.