WWYD: If He Signed Up For A Dating Site...

ClaireDunphy

Totally hypothetical, but based on this thread:

http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/1/59460060/ShowThread.aspx

 

So what would you do if you found out your husband was on a dating website?

LoonyLunaLovegood

I'd leave him. 

Im done working through things and taking someone else's crap. My deal breaker list has grown after all that I've been through.  

duncanpowers

I'm pretty sure that's a deal breaker.

MaryJaneWatz

Deal breaker for sure. 

clseale13

I didn't read the whole thing, but what really sucks is that there is a chance (albeit a very small one) that he was somewhat honest about his reasons. She also said it seemed fairly inactive. I can see why she'd want to talk to his therapist, but I don't know how you could get past that tiny voice that would be in that back of your head telling you that you're a naive fool.

ClaireDunphy

LoonyLunaLovegood:

I'd leave him. 

Im done working through things and taking someone else's crap. My deal breaker list has grown after all that I've been through.  

A-freakin'-men.

My list of must-haves & deal breakers are each a mile long. I'm going to die alone.

LXLX

I'd want to find out more about the activity on the site and his other internet/fb/texting activity. This would not be an automatic deal breaker for me.

jenhappy

Hard to say for sure, but I would probably leave.

PantsOffDanceOff

His explanation on the other thread seems like a load of bull.

Martiza

I say I wouldn't leave until I had more details. We have worked through some tough ***. I would want to know most recent activity, for sure. Flameable, but I don't want to pay him alimony.