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WHY do I have to re-verify that chris & i are married to the benefits company? seriously? we got married in 09, and we had to send them our marriage license to put me on his insurance ( i get that ).. Now apparently we have to send them our marriage license (Again..although they already have that piece of paper on file) AND we have to send them our tax return.
i'm not down w/ sending them our tax return. it's none of them damn business how much money we make -granted they probably aren't looking at that, but i don't care. i'm just annoyed.
Re: FFFC
That would be annoying to me, too. You should redact out all of the figures.
I am pissed to be working today. Today is a paid holiday, yet here I sit, doing someone else's job. Grrrrrr.
I thought about putting white out on all the numbers. Chris' company is bunch of gossping assholes. seriously. one of the guys that he kind of works with lives in our neighborhood, and the guy thinks he knows my Dad. He knows of my Dad, but he doesn't know him. Clearly this means he should go around spewing our financial situation to everyone. He's told everyone that we are loaded, that Chris married into money, .. they've even google mapped our house.. it SO bizarre.. a bunch of grown men. FWIW we aren't loaded. he didn't marry into money, and they'd probably be shocked at how much money we don't make ...but it's none of their damn business.
i'm also annoyed i'm working. we weren't supposed to see patients today but the Dr. just told me one of his post-op patients isn't feeling well so we have to see her. WAH
WTF is wrong with people? The divorce paralegal here was upset when I told her I'd done all of my own paperwork. She was offended I didn't ask her for help. Um, I appreciate the help, but (1) it's not that hard (for me), (2) I am her superior so I didn't really want her all in my personal business, and (3) she REALLY should not know how much I/we do/do not make. Too close for comfort. But some people don't understand boundaries.
I know! so weird. oh, these guys, they basically told Chris that they looked up our house by saying, "How come you didn't paint your house brown like your neighbors. " WTF creepers.
Yesterday my H had to turn in his vacation days for the upcoming year. I asked him what days he put in for and he told me two weeks in late May, early June and a week in November for his brothers wedding. While the November leave will work, I won't really be able to travel in late May/June.
Ummm, duh, you knew we were having a baby in June.
But yet he claims I never told him the due date of the baby. ::rolls eyes:: No it was just because you weren't listening.
I asked him to change the dates to April and he said he doesn't want to because it won't be good for fishing. Whatever.
Oh and I also asked him to take off Christmas since we will have a 3 year old and she won't want to wait until 4 PM when he gets off from work to open gifts. But he doesn't want to take that day off. Ugh. I know it's silly to be fighting about something that will happen a year in advance but sometimes he can really make me crazy.........
He says he is going to see if he can change his vacation for May/June. Umm, good thing, or he will be going on vacation by himself.
Baby Macy is here!
12/09 - Macy (daughter) | 4/10 - Began TTC Baby #2 | 12/10 - Chemical Pregnancy | 1/12 - Miscarriage at 14 weeks | DX - PCOS & Hyperthyroidism
Ditto. I don't mind working, but I am really done with where I am now.