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Broke it off with DILF
Talked to DILF last night after a weekend of realizing that he was far too emotionally invested than I was in dating (read: Stage 5 Clinger). He didn't take the whole, "I'm not looking for something this serious right now, I know you are and don't want to waste your time if I don't see a future together" thing well, especially considering we had only been dating for a month!
After a text at 3:30am saying, "You crushed me, Thanks..." I'm glad I nipped things in the bud. If only I could have gone back to sleep-ugh
ETA: Just got an email: "No one has ever treated me worse than you. Thank you." Seriously?! Can you buy psycho-dar on the interwebz?
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Re: Broke it off with DILF
Breaking up is hard to do! ::sings to herself::
It is not easy to let someone down, but you did a good thing. Try not to dwell on it, he is a big boy and will be fine.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
What can I say? I give great BJ's
ETA: Maybe he meant that I literally crushed him...because he doesn't feed himself and weighs probably 150lbs at 5'11". ::stares down at thunder thighs::
Slore! lol
Don't hate...I offer lessons!
For real? Those are his dimensions? So tell me Mint, what was it like having sex with a skeleton? Bahahahahaha
Gawd jm, get it right, it's called boning!
That is classic Mint!! I will admit it took about 10 seconds for that to sink in....LMAO!!
LOL, Early confession... I gave BJ classes to my sorority in College! We were drunk and everyone was saying they didn't know what to do other than the obvious. I had only had one BF at the time and most of what I told them was straight out of Cosmo.
I had 3 of their BFs come up to me privately and thank me. For serious I was talking out of my arse for most of the "class"
Siggy is in honor of my XH--my BFF emailed it to me last night. The fact that it applied to DILF is just coincidental.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
This! Onwards and upwards!
lol for serious!
in the time it took to read the text/email from him i saw your entire possible future flash before my eyes.
let me tell you, it was not a good vision. you made the right move, obvs lol
I love this entire thread!!! Cracked me up...
Glad you were strong enough to break things off, but sorry he turned into such a clinger. I can totally relate because the 2 guys I've dated have been that way and it really gets old fast...
This is awesome. I remember once in college doing a search on the internet...I'm sure a "class" would have been much more beneficial!
One of my friends gave me this saying on a car coaster soon after we split. A few hours later, XH broke into my house (perfect timing). It couldn't be any more true!
OMG good thing you broke it off when you did. Imagine if you would've dated for two months, he might've turned all "Fatal Attraction" on you. Bullet dodged!
Oh, and this backs up my theory about clingers and how there's usually something a bit "off" with them.
Yep, you dodged a bullet!
I broke up with the bf a few months ago after 6ish months because he became to clingy, not my style at all. He texted me periodically seeing if I wanted to get back together. I finally laid down the law after trying to be nice and said, I'm done, leave me alone. 2 weeks after that, he was in a new relationship. Co-dependent people are not healthy.
Wow! It looks like you are lucky you got out when you did! Weirdo!
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Isn't it interesting how someone's true colors come out during a breakup? Glad you broke it off when you did!
Loving the siggy
No way! It was the impetus I needed to do it. Thanks!
Sounds like you received validation you made the right decision.
OH - and I'm in love with your siggie picture.