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Tuesday Poll :)

What's for lunch/dinner?

On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now?

How much fun money do you allow yourself each month?

When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it?

When did you last get some sexy time?
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  • imageBoyMom21:
    What's for lunch/dinner? Lunch is undecided but we are having burgers for dinner!

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? A solid 8.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? We don't really have a set amount for this, but we are throwing around starting it up. I'll just make sure it's enough for nails, pedis, and Starbucks runs. :)

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I had a pedi last Wednesday. I'll get my nails done this week.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Yesterday! H has been reading this book called She Comes First, and it's really paying off :)
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? I have no idea! Dinner we'll probably eat at the ILs when we pick the boys up.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 8-9. It would be a 10 if we could spend more alone time together. That's been difficult with a newborn and I'm working after the boys lay down.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? $60. It's been more lately though because I have sucked at sticking to our budget.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I got Starbucks for myself this morning! (see above, haha)

    When did you last get some sexy time? Last night. I must have really wanted it because H is sick!
  • imageBoyMom21:
    What's for lunch/dinner? Spaghetti.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now?  I would say it is pretty damn perfect!

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month?  Not sure how to explain it, but we have a line item in our cash flow for each bill, gas, and then a large line item for everything else - groceries, hair, make up, medicines, other sh!t, fun money, etc etc.    Anyhoo, I budget $1,600 a month for groceries and other crap. 

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it?  I got my hair highlighted at a zsa zsa salon in Dallas and I *love* it. 

    When did you last get some sexy time?  Huh. 
  • imageBoyMom21:
    What's for lunch/dinner? I'm not in my classroom today, so lunch will be at a restaurant, maybe Mexican? No idea about dinner yet!

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? I'd say an 8. More time together would bring that up to a 9 or 10 but the ridiculous # of hours DH has been working is making that difficult lately.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? We don't have designated fun money.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Umm....my friend is picking G up from daycare next Tuesday so I can go get my hair done, so I'll go with that.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Saturday night--good thing because I felt like crap Sunday and yesterday!
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? Don't know what's for lunch. Dinner will be turkey chili that H made last night.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 6. TTC and job-related stress are taking a toll on me lately.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I don't really have a budget. It's something I've talked about wanting to set up, b/c I tend to spend more than H. On average, I probably spend $150/mo.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? About a month ago, I used a gift card to buy myself an hour-long massage at Cottonwood in Edmond. It was as awesome as it sounds.


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  • What's for lunch/dinner? Lunch is leftover spaghetti squash lasagna. Dinner will probably be at a restaurant somewhere downtown-ish before a concert tonight.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? Hmmm, 7, maybe? We have a super awesome great time together, but I think there may be long-term compatability issues. Trying to work them all out.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? About $150-$200. That covers going out, clothes, pedis, etc.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I got a mani/pedi last week.

    When did you last get some sexy time?
  • What's for lunch/dinner? No clue, no clue.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? Considering the angry phone call I just finished, I would say a 4 or 5. I'm pissed this morning.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? No set amount.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Saturday night I did some alone shopping at a few stores (Target, Hobby Lobby, etc.).

    When did you last get some sexy time? Yesterday.
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? Uh...no idea about lunch. Probably a salad. Dinner will be a chicken and mushroom bake.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? Probably about a 7.5. Communication has become an issue again, but we're working it out.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? No real set amount, but I don't typically spend more than $100 in fun [food/drinks/movies/clothes etc.] money each month.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Uh...I bought this awesome new mixing bowl last night that was on sale. That's about it. :P

    When did you last get some sexy time? Last time H was home - end of August. Here's hoping he's out of training for Christmas...
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? I am going to lunch with co-workers so I am not sure yet. Dinner will probably be oven baked chicken poppers, fries and mac&cheese

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? I'd say an 8

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? Don't really have a set limit but need to set one. We blow way to much money!

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I took off work last Tuesday and went to the Cake Boss show in Tulsa with my bestie.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Lastnight
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  • What's for lunch/dinner?

    lunch is some lean cuisine type meal. Yuck. Dinner I have no idea. I may make some enchiladas or something of that nature.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now?

    9.9 My only complaint is that I don't get to see him enough.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month?

    it's pretty terrible, but I don't really know. I buy what we want/need and consider the current state of our bank account / other plans, but I don't really budget fun money.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it?

    I bought myself a wedding dress yesterday!

    When did you last get some sexy time?

    I think we fooled around some yesterday, but if that doesn't count, Sunday.  

  • What's for lunch/dinner?  I brought soup for lunch and I think I'm making spaghetti and meatballs for dinner

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? We are at a 9.5 right now. I don't want to get too cocky and say a 10 but it's going great.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? Whatever is left over from paying bills. We don't actually have a set allowance. We pay all the bills first and if we have extra money left over and there is something that is I want to buy then I buy it. But I always look forward to see what bills are needing to be paid next time before I purchase.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Went and walked around Target by myself with a coffee. M was taking a nap at home so I took advantage of DH being there and nothing else to do.

    When did you last get some sexy time? The other morning.
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  • What's for lunch/dinner?  It's free pizza day at work. I'm bringing a Honeycrisp apple and raw red pepper to try to make it at least a little healthier. I won't be home until 10:30 tonight, so who knows what's for dinner. Something fast from the fridge.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 9. I'll never say "10" because no one is perfect, but I'm very happy.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? $100 pocket money each but we don't use that for meals out together or personal care/clothing. We don't have a set budget for those things, but we're not lavish spenders, either.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I took a nap yesterday from 6-8pm. I know that sounds insane as a "something for yourself" but you know how I love my sleep! 

    When did you last get some sexy time? The last time DH was off work

  • What's for lunch/dinner? Lunch: I stopped and got a breakfast burrito from Sonic on my way from school to work. Dinner: I'll probably have to stop somewhere quick since I'll pretty much be going straight from work to do the tutor hotline.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? I won't say 10 because things could always be better, but I'd say a 9.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? Gosh I don't even want to know. We don't set a limit but I know we should.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Does running count? I'd probably say the 11k I did this past weekend. Running is such a stress reliever for me. And that feeling of accomplishment afterwards was sooooo awesome! 

    When did you last get some sexy time? Saturday

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  • What's for lunch/dinner? I had chicken and sausage gumbo soup for lunch.  Leftovers for dinner (roast from Sunday, pork chops from last night)

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 7, we are really trying to work on communicating better. 

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? We pay the bills, put money in savings and spend the rest.  No set amount.  If either of us has a big purchase in mind, we plan accordingly.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I pre-ordered a Kindle Fire.  Only to find out Best Buy has them in store today and mine is just being shipped today.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Sunday night

  • What's for lunch/dinner? It's just me during the week, so probably something very extravagant like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with chocolate milk.


    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 6/7

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I don't have a set number.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Went to Maui with friends and had a spa day at the Grand Wailea. It was amazing.

    When did you last get some sexy time? When he was in Oklahoma for his home trip.

  • What's for lunch/dinner? Lunch was a PB&J and grapes; dinner is chicken parmesan.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 8. It would be a 10 if I got more action and he didn't stress about work/the future so much.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I get $50 for "hobby money." Basically anything I want- we budget for meals, going out, getting my hair done, etc elsewhere in the budget... so this is just for random craft projects, clothes, etc. We have a $50/weekend budget for fun stuff we do together.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Hmmmmmm.... Yeah, I have no idea. The last time I treated myself to like a pedicure was before our vacation in JUNE.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Quickie in the shower on Saturday. *tear*
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? I made a ham, mashed potatoes, and corn for lunch.  I'll be bringing leftovers for dinner tonight at work.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 9

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I budget for $100 even though we have quite a bit more than that left over after bills and savings.  Sad thing is I can't even get myself to spend the $100. 

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I took Friday off and we went out to eat and shopping.  We shopped for others, but it's the only way I really enjoy shopping. 

    When did you last get some sexy time? Sunday
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  • imageBoyMom21:
    What's for lunch/dinner? I had pita chips with hummus and goat cheese, and an apple for lunch. We're having BBQ chicken, potatoes, and a veggie for dinner.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 7.

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I honestly have no clue. Most of our fun money is spent on joint entertainment, and I'm not sure what amount I spend just on me.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? I got a massage last Friday.
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  • imageBoyMom21:
    What's for lunch/dinner? Umm dinner whats that? I'll probably pick something up after puppy class with Daisy.

    On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? 8 well being on other sides of the world has its perks, no arguing ever and lots of "I love and miss you"

    How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? I'm the penny pincher so I dont usually spend much, I try to only leave about $50 in the account without a name to it, everythign else goes into savings.

    When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? This last weekend, it was my first weekend off in I don't know when and I had drinks almost every night plus shopping and eating out. I kinda blew my budget a little but I had just gotten birthday money so I dont feel bad about it.

    When did you last get some sexy time? Does alone sexy time, or pictures count? Other sides of the world has its down sides too, this being a big one and the other being the time difference which makes it hard to talk much. 8 weeks though and I'll be giving it to the first english speaking person I see when I arrive in China. Hope H gets off work to pick me up :) 
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    imageBoyMom21:
    8 weeks though and I'll be giving it to the first english speaking person I see when I arrive in China. Hope H gets off work to pick me up :) 

    I'm DYING right now... Omg. Funniest thing I've read all day. :) 

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    imagerenee18101:
    imageBoyMom21:
    8 weeks though and I'll be giving it to the first english speaking person I see when I arrive in China. Hope H gets off work to pick me up :) 

    I'm DYING right now... Omg. Funniest thing I've read all day. :) 


    Hahahaha!!  Classic.
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  • What's for lunch/dinner? Lunch was Drug rep BBQ, dinner was broccoli cheese chicken in the crockpot. On a scale of 1-10, (1-crap and 10-perfect) how is your marriage/relationship right now? Probabky 7.5 right now. It sucks to work different shifts. Somedays we are lucky if we pass each other in the hall twice... Plus he's "acquired" this bad habit of "forgetting" to do things. Irritating. How much fun money do you allow yourself each month? Usually about $50-75. When's the last time you did something for yourself and what was it? Gosh... Hair appt 3 wks ago. Buying shoes this weekend though, then Breaking Dawn with my seestah next weekend. When did you last get some sexy time? Sunday. Usual day. Hard to fit it in when I'm running in the door all week in just enough time to eat dinner and plunk Wee-man in the tub before he runs back out the door. I hate midshift. For the record...
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