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WWYD?

So another mum in our compound had a garage sale recently and offered me some of the stuff that didn't sell, I said hell yes.

Today she turned up with a sleeping bag, hammock swing thing, boppy pillow, playfood and a vsmile (a computer style thing that Otto won't get yet but still fantastic!)

What would you give her in return?  I asked her what she would like and she said she would hold onto the favour, but I feel like that isn't enough, I asked her what her vice drink wise is and she said Sangria from one particular restaurant but I can't go and get that for her so I am not sure what to do.

What would you get her for a thank you? 

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Re: WWYD?

  • Is she America (are you? I don't remember)? If so, maybe you could bake her something you can't get easily over there, like brownies or something.

    btw - The picture of your son in your siggy looks like the boy in The Sixth Sense (who I thought was adorable...).

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    btw - The picture of your son in your siggy looks like the boy in The Sixth Sense (who I thought was adorable...).

    Yeh, he does!

    Honestly, I'd probably give her nothing other than gratitude.   

  • I am Australian and she is American (Texan).  I don't think I have ever baked brownies before but I could try.

    I have never had anyone say that Otto looks like the boy is Sixth sense I will have to google him.  Randomly right now he is talking as he goes to sleep so who knows if he has the 'sense'! 

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  • It would be nice to bake something for her -- maybe cookies, bread, or whatever you like to make. 

    As far as her "holding onto the favor" my guess is that she never intends to cash that in.  I mean, if she ever needs a favor, she's probably a good enough friend/neighbor that she would ask you anyway, whether you technically "owed" her one or not.   So I wouldn't worry too much about it:-)

     

     

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  • Maybe have her over for lunch?  I don't you have to do anything, but I think a little lunch date would be nice just to get a chat and such.  
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  • I like NCV2's idea, a nice time together.

    I gave a bunch of M's baby stuff including a maxi cosi, breastfeeding pillow, bjorn and baby bathtub to a friend, I didn't expect anything in return other than a thank you. I doubt your friend thinks that you "owe" her something.

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    I gave a bunch of M's baby stuff including a maxi cosi, breastfeeding pillow, bjorn and baby bathtub to a friend, I didn't expect anything in return other than a thank you. I doubt your friend thinks that you "owe" her something.

    This! :)

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  • She's probably just happy to see the things she spent good money on put to use. Just last night my friend gave a bunch of her very expensive old bras to my sister because they don't fit anymore. She's sad that she didn't get to wear them very long but glad that she didn't waste the money she spent on them.

    Ditto PPs - you don't really owe her anything. But, speaking from personal experience, having something baked specifically for you is a touching gesture!  

  • Thanks ladies, I don't feel like I owe her anything I just want to make sure she understands that I feel grateful for it.  I will have to bake something I think, I might try and make lamingtons, very Australian and who doesn't love sponge cake wrapped in chocolate with coconut?
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  • I pass my son's gently used clothing onto a friend whose son is 12 months younger. I don't expect anything in return, but she has given me a gift certificate as well as a cute backpack for my LO. I think the treat you mentioned sounds wonderful! Being on a compound, my guess is that outings are more planned, right? Perhaps the next time you are out (or have something delivered), you could arrange for a token treat for her.

    Being a gracious receiver can be a challenge. I find it so much easier to be the giver!
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  • wow how nice! yea I'd just bake her something and give it to her with a thank you note - I'm sure she'd appreciate that
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    Being a gracious receiver can be a challenge. I find it so much easier to be the giver!

    Agreed! 

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