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Is this a tacky idea?

My husband and I just got married Nov. 11, so money is a tad tight right now. To help with the cost of gifts for all our friends and family, I deicded to bake goodie bags for everyone. I love to bake and am pretty good at it, but I am wondering if a basket of brownies/fudge/cookies is a good gift? One of my friend's moms told me it was a stupid idea, that "nobody wants homemade gifts." She also told me that since I would have to go out and buy the makings, I should just spend money on stuff people would want. Ummm...when I think how far a bag of flour and sugar will stretch with cookies and other goodies compared to spending $20 to $25 a person, I still think I come out ahead. Plus I will enjoy myself! What do you all think? Tacky idea or not?
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Re: Is this a tacky idea?

  • That is not tacky at all. Your friend's mom is crazy. I think that is a thoughtful gift. It's all about the thought. Someone needs to remind your friend's mom of that. SMH
  • I don't think it's tacky at all. I always appreciate all gifts given to me. Especially homemade ones. But I honestly don't usually eat more than a cookie or two, and either try to give them away or just throw away most. Especially at Christmas time when A LOT of people are giving cookies, its just not something I can overindulge in. But I do appreciate them. Not sure if that response helps you or not. : P
  • I would love to receive baked goods!

    If I were in your shoes I would include the recipe :) I love getting and trying new recipes - especially when they are unusual or unique gifts. For example - everyone has chocolate chip cookies. They are a great classic. But this past Thanksgiving I made Cranberry Oatmeal and White Chocolate cookies. They were great!  

    Hey while I'm talking about it - my December ToH magazine just came in. This issue had a few pages dedicated to baked goods as gifts - and then you "Dress It Up" according to ToH with bright, festive decorations. You can see some in the pictures.  I hope these ideas inspire you :)   - - Tell your friends mom she's a scrooge.   BTW - look at the package in the background - not the food or recipe lol.

    http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/Amaretto-Cream-Truffles 

    http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/Christmas-Cranberries

    http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/Great-Granola 

     

     

  • Jeez! I hope it's not tacky because I'm baking for a few people on my Xmas list this year too!

    We have 34 people to buy for this year, between DH's huge family, and all the kids in our life- for the bosses and some distant Aunt + Uncle's, I'm baking cookies and chocolate dipping pretzels and marshmallows! :) And I picked up cute goodie bags and even tins at our local dollar store! 

  • I don't think its tacky at all!  Including the recipe would be a nice idea too and maybe you could add in some blank personalized recipe cards if you're crafty.

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  • Not tacky at all. And anyone who says otherwise isn't worth your flour and sugar. Wink

     

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  • Not tacky at all!!!!!!!!!!! People love homemade gifts....they mean more! Plus everyone likes baked goodies! Do it and have a blast...and make sure you make her one hahaha!

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  • Thanks everyone. I was worried that I was just being a cheap-o. I like the idea of including the receipe. :)
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    Thanks everyone. I was worried that I was just being a cheap-o. I like the idea of including the receipe. :)

     

    1st - I don't think it's tacky. I love edible gifts! And I'm making fudge for friends/family...
    2nd - Adding the recipe is great. What do you plan on making? I would advise not "too much" of something 'different'. IMO, basic chocolate chip cookies or some brownies is GREAT. I love to try new things but I feel horrible when someone bakes me something 'different' and I don't love it and have a lot of it.

     

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    Not tacky at all. And anyone who says otherwise isn't worth your flour and sugar. Wink

     

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    1st - I don't think it's tacky. I love edible gifts! And I'm making fudge for friends/family...
    2nd - Adding the recipe is great. What do you plan on making? I would advise not "too much" of something 'different'. IMO, basic chocolate chip cookies or some brownies is GREAT. I love to try new things but I feel horrible when someone bakes me something 'different' and I don't love it and have a lot of it.

     

     

    I was planning on basic chocolate fudge, and chocolate fudge chunk cookies. Maybe do a batch of peppermint cookies too. Pretty basic stuff. :)

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  • I don't think it's tacky at all!  I like homemade gifts.

    I'm planning to make caramels (plain, chocolate covered and salted) for my co-workers for Christmas...total of 13 people.  I want to give them something appreciated, but not break the bank. 

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  • I think it's a very sweet idea.  If you're worried, you could always give friends and family the recipe and a mix instead of making the sweets yourself.  I've done that with my niece and nephew - filled a mason jar with the flour, sugar, peppermint, etc. and a recipe so they just need to add butter/milk/whatever wet ingredients.
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  • I think these gifts are always well received.  I'm making some gifts for people this year.  I don't see anything wrong with it at all.

     

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  • Umm, tacky is informing someone that their gift isn't ok... WOW!

    Another idea would be to give a plate/bag whatever with just a few goodies plus one of those 'cookies/brownies-in-a-jar' things. I get sweets overload during the holidays and it destroys my diet. But a 'cookie in a jar' thing means mid January I can throw in an egg and some butter and have a redo of the holiday goodies you sent me.

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