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Something to pick this board up today...let's do FFFC

I'm bored...entertain me!

 

 

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Re: Something to pick this board up today...let's do FFFC

  • I'm struggling with feelings of immense hatred towards XH.  After everything he put me through I really never felt like he was worth that amount of time or energy (to hate).  However, the fact that he is intentionally withholding child support because he is angry at me has me practically seething. I don't want to give him that power and I know it is wrong, but I just cannot help it.
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  • I'm really getting sick and tired of living in the middle of fvcking nowhere.

    Now that A is out of the picture, I find myself wondering when the next time I'll have sex again will be. Quite frankly, I get pissy the longer I have to go without it. 

    I bought a top for myself when I was in the city and a Candy Cane Chill Blizzard from DQ. I love the top and the Blizzard was so awesome, I may sneak in to town after DS is in bed to get another one...

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  • I have never been able to figure out what FFFC means...usually I can figure the acronyms out!
    *The only way to dream is big*
  • See post below. I'm hoping to steal my bed back tonight.

    WTF sellers? I signed my contract on this house back in august and still have not received an approval from the second mortgage the seller holds in this short sale. I would really like to close before the end of this year so I can claim it on my taxes.

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  • imageachase123:
    I'm struggling with feelings of immense hatred towards XH.  After everything he put me through I really never felt like he was worth that amount of time or energy (to hate).  However, the fact that he is intentionally withholding child support because he is angry at me has me practically seething. I don't want to give him that power and I know it is wrong, but I just cannot help it.

    This is normal. Don't be so hard on yourself for being upset now and then, it's only natural to be pissed when someone is trying to fvck you (and not in the good way). You'll get passed it just like you did before, swear. 

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  • imagebaw1981:
    I have never been able to figure out what FFFC means...usually I can figure the acronyms out!

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    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • I'm tired of being everyone's go-to person for things needed, but as soon as I need something no one is to be found. I'm over being there for people who really don't care. I've had this attitude lately that basically says Idon'tgiveaflyingfuck about you and your problems to everyone, including BF. He had a psycho moment last night and I walked away from him, went to bed, and still haven't spoken to him. Until he decides to act like the grown man he is, he can be treated like a child. I don't give a flyingfuckanymore!!
    Aye karramba.
  • BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

     

    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • I had dinner with an ex last night and it was lovely.
  • imagedmarie979:

    BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

     

     

    Nice!! I love it!!! 

  • My friend and I have been going to a local bar on Thursday nights since she doesn't have her children.  We've both developed a crush on the bartender and we are both pretty sure he loves us both -- but I'm pretty sure he might crush on her a little more than me.  I'm ok with it (or maybe not...) because it's just fun. But I really hope she doesn't actually do anything other than crush on this guy because I don't want to lose out on a fun place to hang out on Thursdays!  We went to another bar for awhile and she started dating one of the regulars and that ended badly and we lost that bar in the break up.  I don't want to lose another bar in a break up!!
    *The only way to dream is big*
  • imagemarigoldgirl44:
    imagedmarie979:

    BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

     

    Nice!! I love it!!! 

    Thanks. He is gone for the next two weeks so I needed to give him something to remember me by Wink

    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • imagedmarie979:

    BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

     

    This is awesome!  I love the emoticons used!!

    *The only way to dream is big*
  • imagebaw1981:
    My friend and I have been going to a local bar on Thursday nights since she doesn't have her children.  We've both developed a crush on the bartender and we are both pretty sure he loves us both -- but I'm pretty sure he might crush on her a little more than me.  I'm ok with it (or maybe not...) because it's just fun. But I really hope she doesn't actually do anything other than crush on this guy because I don't want to lose out on a fun place to hang out on Thursdays!  We went to another bar for awhile and she started dating one of the regulars and that ended badly and we lost that bar in the break up.  I don't want to lose another bar in a break up!!

     Bahaha! Reminds me of college for sure! One of my girlfriends used to do the same thing. 

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  • I'm beginning to get a lil frustrated with sexytime with my BF...We used to have it often and now it seems to be less frequent.  While I  know this can be normal in the progression of a relationship this does not make me a happy camper...I did mention it to him and he said its just because hes been so tired lately from working so much....

  • imageMia2700:
    I had dinner with an ex last night and it was lovely.

    Just dinner?! Big Smile

    *The only way to dream is big*
  • I shouldn't be, but the gmginny post about giving some random on CL her ex's address for a blowjob is really disturbing to me. And her DDing it b/c it got posted on another board is super lame.

     

  • I want jewelry for Christmas.  I lurve sparkly things, and XFI was really good at picking out jewelry that I would like, so I got a little spoiled in that department.  BF favors practical presents.  I hate practical presents.  If I really need something, I will buy it--presents should be something that I WANT!
  • imageachase123:
    I'm struggling with feelings of immense hatred towards XH.  After everything he put me through I really never felt like he was worth that amount of time or energy (to hate).  However, the fact that he is intentionally withholding child support because he is angry at me has me practically seething. I don't want to give him that power and I know it is wrong, but I just cannot help it.

    I am sorry you going through this.  I don't see you being angry as giving him power or giving precious energy because he is right now hurting you and not giving you the respect that you and your son deserve.  You should be angry!  Be angry with class, you did nothing wrong.

  • I wish I could say out loud to some judgy people "*** Happens" but that does not mean I deserve less respect, less love , less care than anyone else just because I am going through my second divorce.

    No one is in control over everything that happens in life.  I am being to think they judge because they are very afraid it could happen to them.

  • imagedmarie979:

    BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

     

    YesYes

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  • imageUDscoobychick:
    I want jewelry for Christmas.  I lurve sparkly things, and XFI was really good at picking out jewelry that I would like, so I got a little spoiled in that department.  BF favors practical presents.  I hate practical presents.  If I really need something, I will buy it--presents should be something that I WANT!

    I'm with ya here lol...This is our first Christmas together so Im not even sure what to say when he asks what I want...I want something sparkly and pretty but pretty sure Im getting something like a car starter...hes a practical kinda guy and while I know its coming from a good place and still a good gift..id prefer a lil bling... 

     

  • I'm feeling very, very down about nothing being able to find a job so I can be closer to G.  I had to turn down an offer to transfer with my company (it was a demotion, bad hours, and a huge pay cut).  It doesn't help that I'm sick right now too, so I'm tired and emotional.  Boo.
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  • imagebaw1981:

    imageMia2700:
    I had dinner with an ex last night and it was lovely.

    Just dinner?! Big Smile

    Yes Angel

  • I basically invited T (guy I've been seeing?) over for a sleepover on Saturday night. He's coming home from a business trip and lives about an hour and a half from the airport so he didn't want to drive back because he has major jet lag (he's oversees). He was just going to crash at a friends house or get a hotel room, but I suggested he should just come over to my place instead. So...he is.

    Surprise

     

    The Nestie formally known as....
  • I?m really struggling right now, and frankly it?s turning into a full on pity party:  I?m thankful I?m able to live rent free, but I?m really sick of living with my family.  I thought I?d let go of my XH issues for the most part, but they keep resurfacing, something about ?her? (the woman he?s been seeing, the one who was supposedly my friend) ? I just recently found out they moved in together, and it?s sent me into a little bit of a tail spin.  It?s so frustrating to want to be over it already, and not be.  I?m also dealing with issues feeling like I?m never going to get to be a mom, it?s really been nagging at the back of my mind lately ? didn?t help that this week a friend of mine (also single) had a pregnancy scare and then NPR ran a story yesterday about women and fertility?  ::le sigh::   The good news is, I called my therapist up this week and have an appointment scheduled (I haven?t seen her since I ?graduated?)  In the meantime someone pass me a cocktail! 

  • imagedmarie979:

    BF left this morning for his military training. We had a little sexy time last night and I did something that he said no woman has ever done to him before, lol. It was a little like this:

    Me: Devil

    Him: Surprise

    Both of us after: Cool

    Ha!

    My FFFC is that I'm dying to know what you did to him!

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  • Deets dmarie!

    My FFFC is that I found another 40 something dad--at least this one only wants a NSA/FWB.  We've been very open about sexy time fun and I think he's going to be a very good friend Wink He drives a truck, hunts, and likes country music.  We've have plans to have some fun in the woods before it gets too cold ::insert wolf howl here::

    Also, (in case it wasn't obvious) my sex drive is through the roof!  Combo of being off BCP and being "liberated" from XH.

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  • I'm terrified that after 5 years of ttc, I'm finally pg the month I decided to leave my h.

    Please, God, nooooooo!

    The day I left was just my beginning.
  • imagerakattack:

    I'm terrified that after 5 years of ttc, I'm finally pg the month I decided to leave my h.

    Please, God, nooooooo!

    I thought I was too.  It was just the stress--I had a 17 day lp that month

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