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But I'm kinda bummed. I just found out my much younger cousin is pregnant and getting married... I guess it kinda stirs up a little of "if XH wasn't a cheating douche *I* would be the one having the first great grandchild" How silly is that? Oh well, I'll feel like this a little longer and it will go away. I'm MUCH better off and have an amazing man in my life so *** what could have been lol!
Re: This is dumb...
not silly at all.
My sons teacher is pg with her third baby. When she told we at the PT meeting I was very happy for her but as I left the building I was hit with loss thinking there will be no third baby for me.... and I kinda always wanted three.
Still I have two wonderful boys so I can't complain, but I know what your feeling. Its the loss of a future you thought you were to have.
Not dumb at all.
I still get teary when I hear my friends are pregnant. Not because I want more kids, but because I want the experience I didn't have with DS. Try as I might to make it as awesome as possible, it was sucky sometimes being pg alone.