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Pity Party
Today is a sucky day! I usually try not to be a sad sally, but I can't shake it today.
Party, it started because 11 years ago today one of my closest friends died when we were seniors in high school. So the 12th always sucks a bit anyways. I invited a guy that I was interested in to the KU basketball game on Saturday. He came, we had a good time, but there was not the chemistry there that we usually have so I'm a little bummed about that. Another guy friend that I always tried to deny that I had more feelings for got engaged this weekend. I always knew that there was never a possibility for anything but a friendship there but I guess deep down I was always hopeful. He called and told me he proposed this weekend and while I'm happy for them, I'm trying not to let it bother me.
As I was typing this, I did get a call from the counselor I saw when I first got divorced. I had left a message for her on Friday and she can get me in on Thursday, so that's a positive!
What are some fun/cheerful things that have happened for y'all lately?
Re: Pity Party
I am getting what I want for Christmas!
I start my new job in January
DD and I looked awesome this weekend while attending a holiday party!
I hope this week gets better for you and your counseling session makes you feel better.
Hugs! I am sorry you are feeling this way. Try not to let it get you down and be thankful that you are intune with what you are feeling as it will be your compass.