Update to Monday

Krissimarie

STBXH's attorney called my attorney and told him that STBXH will not do anything attorney tells him to with getting appraisals on things (big suprise). She is considering having him get a new attorney. My attorney wants to know if we want to wait and see what happens, or push through and get a court date any way? I will have to pay the fee's unless the judge makes him pay, but with little money coming in and him living at mommies and doing drugs, he doesnt have a penny to his name. I am just ready for this to be done. My attorney gave me the choice, but I am leaning towards sticking it to him and just getting this *** done with.

 

 

KaraC18

Whatever option would make a resolution come quicker is what I vote on. What happens if you go ahead and get a court date... you have all your stuff in order and are ready to go, and his side is still fumbling around (getting appraisals or whatever you mention?) Can the judge still rule and get it over with? Or do you need him to get those appraisals and do his part?

Whatever option gets this over for you quicker is the better one, in my opinion.

Good luck! 

 

MintChocoChip

I look at things like this in the light of "how much is my time and sanity worth".  If it's worth more than the difference in the money, bite the bullet.

renegade gaucho

I also say do whatever you have to in order to get this over with.  You already know that if you wait and see what happens, it's not going to involve your ex deciding to be reasonable and not an _asshole.