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I am angry and sad
My heart goes out to the OP, but keep reading. You'll see what I mean.
ETA: I fixed it on FF!
I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
Re: I am angry and sad
She's probably one of the females that makes the rest of us look bad. That's the only reason I can come up with that would make her believe that BS is true.
I don't know of anybody who cheated on a spouse while I was deployed. One of the dumb Sailors I worked with was cheating on his girlfriend/kid's mom, but he gave up so many red flags it was hard for me to feel bad for his girlfriend.
It wasn't until I was on R&R that I saw the real dirt bags, but even then it wasn't cheating, just men thinking hook-ups with AF females were a possibility. Psssh.
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I saw that & just felt so bad. I'm curious about the deployment question. J's deployment is proving eventful. All kinds of shiit is coming out now.
The former military poster is an idiot. Cheating is cheating no matter where or why.
Sad.
Her enlistment was up shortly after they redeployed and supposedly nothing happened until then. They were "just friends" until she was out.
A. Yeah right
B. Just friends isn't okay either.
People don't think it's a big deal, but lack of respect for the law matters when you're a leader. It creates a climate of disrespect for the UCMJ, it's bad for every other officer because it makes the chain of command look awful, and it's just truly bad for good order and discipline.
Im not railing at you, just railing in general.
That's kind of sad (the FI dying part). I hope her marriage is happy.
Uhhhh, guys?
Obviously someone is lying in this post (if the 2nd test is +).
Semi-related story:::::::::::::: Oprah did a 2 part story on this couple (well mostly the women). Her husband was secretly gay (and sleeping around) but she didn't know until he gave her HIV.
Super sad story. At first, she was irate but in the end she was able to forgive him and they are still friends but dang!
Does she not have reading comprehension? Of course it can and does happen; relationships are destroyed everyday because of it. The defensiveness comes from using stress and distance as an excuse for being a crappy, disrespectful partner. Cheesus.
Edited for typos. Yikes.
If my husband cheats b/c he's stressed, that's ok? I'll be sure to let him know. Insecurity is the only reason I'd kick him to the curb. Got it.
Lol chicka tell us how you really feel.
Did she just make this up?? I don't remember her mentioning that in the op.
My husband is military and gets tested for STDs a couple times a year. In fact he just did about 2 months ago, and there was nothing.