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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
hey SO, your relationships will fail
beccaga16-- seems to have her sh!t mostly together, but i read her blog. she married her XH the day after he asked her? and then mysteriously finds herself mysteriously 4 weeks pregnant... 4 weeks later? hopefully she has learned from that sh!t. wow.
BowiesInSpace-- ehhhh. she is moving in with her BF kind of soon, but because she's a "regular" and people like her, no one is really calling her out on it.
dmarie979-- she cares more about what her BF's mother thinks of her than what her BF thinks. oh and don't forget to PM her if you want ideas on how to sex-bully your man into staying with freaky bedroom moves that are too x-rated to post. YWIA!
dmndsr4eva-- crash and burn. duh.
FormerlyAK-- this pair will probably get engaged, and probably even married, but it will crash and burn within 3-4 years. we might not get to see it happen, but it will happen. one of her latest posts: she still gets "emotional" about her XH/ stuff from her past, and BF "holds her and lets her cry and cry and talk and talk until she feels better." ummmm. wouldn't wanna be him! if you are in a serious relationship and about to move in together, your issues should not be so bad that you feel the need to "cry and cry" and be held regularly.
Hainesherway-- totally wants the white picket fence, hubby, and kids and doesn't really care who the cast of actors is. she wants to fast-forward to the happy-together-family-times and is grabbing on to the first guy who will let her.
jaksmom808-- her BF kind of sounds like a douche in the few things she's posted about him. she might stay with him for a while, but he'll probably end up mistreating her because she sounds like a doormat.
lovelybb-- they're gonna crash and burn sooner rather than later. one of her latest posts: she said she told her BF she loved him, and he didn't say it back, but she said she "knows he loves her too." really? i'm pretty sure if he did, that would have been the point at which he told her. not to mention their seriousness so quickly (less than 4 months?) is pretty side-eye-worthy, especially given the fact that he's older and has kids. and she's admitted that she likes being the "young eye candy" when his XW is around. grow up!
lovelybb-- they're gonna crash and burn sooner rather than later. one of her latest posts: she said she told her BF she loved him, and he didn't say it back, but she said she "knows he loves her too." really? i'm pretty sure if he did, that would have been the point at which he told her. not to mention their seriousness so quickly (less than 4 months?) is pretty side-eye-worthy, especially given the fact that he's older and has kids. and she's admitted that she likes being the "young eye candy" when his XW is around. grow up!
NinjaPaants-- considering one day she is wanting to break up with him because he is too needy then the next day she is spending every day with him and telling him that she loves him, um........ yeah.
OnlyaFool-- she's going to cheat on him, duh. oh and he's NOT her BF. they've just been dating for several months and spend all their time together. she's pretending to be "casual" about it because she started to date a mere 3 months after she moved out from her XH.
pbear-- seems normal. if her BF is normal too, they will probably be fine. gold--star, pbear.
PrettyinPearls-- i don't even know where to start. she thinks she has her sh!t together, hmm? she just "fell into" this relationship a few months ago and they're talking engagement? did she learn nothing from her divorce, or from the people on this board? JFC.
RiverPestie-- she just told him she loved him, but she made a huge deal out of it. at least she didn't throw up on him when she said it. this will crash and burn unless she stops being a gun-shy wimp.
southsam-- she's gonna break up with him in the next couple of months. she knows it's not right, but she's too scared/lazy/having too much fun to end it yet. it'll be over soon.
UDscoobychick-- might actually work out, but their relationship is icky. she posted one time that one of his KIDS is only a couple of years younger than her (and they're in their 20s!). yuck!
UDscoobychick-- might actually work out, but their relationship is icky. she posted one time that one of his KIDS is only a couple of years younger than her (and they're in their 20s!). yuck!
and just for good measure--
ChasingEmmii-- glad you came to your senses because yours was going to be brutal
MintChocoChip-- holy white trash. i pity every man who ever gets involved with you. screaming at cvs checkout workers over eyeliner? trash.
Re: hey SO, your relationships will fail
MrsJennifer? Is that you? Are you mad no one threw you a divorce party??
I agree with you about Diamonds, though. I think everyone on this board does.
Minordeets -- Too much of a chickenshit to post under their own name.
And I find it oddly disturbing that you took this much time to outline your opinion of those in relationships on this board.
Agreed. Get a life.
Agreed too. Wow.. you are either psycho or have WAAAY too much time on your hands.. probably both.
Even I think you're a gutless slore. And I agree with some of what you've posted and have said it under my name, directly to the people, in the post where its relevant.
At least the people you slammed are brave enough to post personal details about their life under their actual SN's despite knowing they'll be judged.
Yep we got married tha day after he gave me the ring. We had been talking about it for a while. We got married quickly because he did not have insurance. Still not a great reason, but again we had been talking about it for a while.
I found out I was pregnant at the end of that month. Ture story we had only had sex once that month and I got KU on the first try after stopping BC. Nothing mysterious.
ETA: I have nothing to hide and I have learned. So, thanks for noticing I have my sh!t together.
man I haven't gotten a gold star since school. hellz to the y!
kellbell, I like you. I don't always agree with you, but I like you. That is all.
and here I thought I was the total biatch in this relationship and treating him like shiit because I've never dated a guy quite as nice as him. With a few minor mishaps, he really isn't a bad guy at all. My counselor was even rooting for him when she told me to ditch the other azzhats that really took advantage of me, cheated on me and used me for sex.
Seriously! My guess is this is either MrsJennifer or a youngin' who nests from her dorm room in Indiana.
I know, seriously!
I'm wondering what her preferred method of note-taking is. Pen and paper? Word document? Notes app on her smartphone? Creeper.
Please don't insult people from Indiana...
Agreed
My Type A personality loves that she alphabetized this list.
I bet her smartphone did that, I don't want to give her/him too much credit.
Me too. Have some balls, OP!
Well, I just finished with my work holiday party, and came back to the board with this mess. Holy hell.
From what I gather, the first "I love you" is KINDA a big deal. Sheesh.
Ihad to LOL at this, BWA HA HA!
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I love when AE's do a post-and-run. Just confirming your chickenshit status.
LOL!
Thanks JoJo! I do want all those things, and have finally found someone worthy of having them with.
Thanks, I admit I was off my rocker that day. I went back to CVS and apologized.
Annnd you are obviously a sorry single who is not getting any or you wouldn't be jealous of my bedroom moves. Perhaps you should have PM'ed me before your last relationship fell apart. Maybe I could have helped you out....
Although now thinking of it, maybe it wouldn't have helped. Obviously that giant stick in your ass is totally in the way of any man getting his diick in there...
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